Some guys get all the girls; they can chat it up with the hottest of girls without feeling intimidated or nervous. Some of us are shy, or lack the confidence needed to be noticed by the girls we want. I happen to be the latter, and I've heard every piece of advice in the world on the situation I'm in.
It seems the advice seems to follow one of two doctrines; either have PATIENCE and just be yourself, or change something since what you're currently doing is obviously not working.
My friends sympathize with my romantic loneliness and try to help, yet the girls consistently (and enthusiastically!) tell me to be who I am. Even saying this, none of them are interested in a relationship. Things always end up as "just friends". So my question is, should I "start over" and change some things in my life, or just keep on keeping on (and being single).
I don't know what to do...
It seems the advice seems to follow one of two doctrines; either have PATIENCE and just be yourself, or change something since what you're currently doing is obviously not working.
My friends sympathize with my romantic loneliness and try to help, yet the girls consistently (and enthusiastically!) tell me to be who I am. Even saying this, none of them are interested in a relationship. Things always end up as "just friends". So my question is, should I "start over" and change some things in my life, or just keep on keeping on (and being single).
I don't know what to do...