Peculiar problem.

Discussion in 'The Healthy Penis' started by Imported, Aug 16, 2003.

  1. Imported

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    Morty: First post guys, so be nice :)

    Ok, I'm a weird one when it comes to my sex track record. First time in bed I lasted for nearly an hour. Sex was fun for a quite a while. The girl would get tired before I even got there. But now I seem to have a problem. For a while I would lose erections tryin to put a condom on (problem has been solved switchin to larger condom) but along with the switch I also have lost my stamina. Where I used to be able to go for quite a damned long time, I can only last 5-15 minutes now. This DRASTIC change is worrying me quite a bit. I don't know what is going on but I just get there WAY quicker now. I'm curious if any of you guys have been through this or may know of a way to help. It would be greatly appreciated. Also a note is I've been having much more sex lately as well.
     
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    7x6andchg: From my limited experience I would think that having more sex would actually lengthen your "time" so to speak....

    Have you been masturbating? Whether continued or new to it (one can not assume either way)...masturbation kinda sensitizes your penis to a particular set of sensations...which can make actual sex, although better in an infinite number of ways, last longer because it isn't EXACTLY the same thing that Mr. Morty is expecting.

    Secondly - if you're still using a condom now, you may have the back-and-forth motion in, say, a Magnum or a Magnum XL, that normal men have in a regular condom - you've been missing it....that might excite things enough that it doesn't take long. I know that was my case between the regular Magnum and the XL. Magnum proper was about 1.5 hrs...and she's DONE..literally, as in "I can not do this anymore, I'm tired." Magnum XL, on the other hand, provided enough headroom that I FELT something - lasted 20 mins.

    Just some random thoughts from my limited experience. Welcome to the board, Morty!

    7x6&C
     
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    Morty,

    My experience with condoms tallies a bit more with 7x6's, though they never really worked for me at all, for a whole stack of reasons.

    But, just a suggestion, from a guy who has pretty well always been a quick firer:

    I would imagine that you are a young guy, and that the juices are flowing pretty freely. Why not make sure you have come already by masturbation not too long before you have sex? I always find the second round lasts a lot longer than the first. Or -- even better -- it may simply be that you need to learn to keep going after the first ejaculation. That is a great lesson to have to learn ;)
     
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    hawl: Have you tried using Benzocaine, the legal cousin of cocaine and novocaine? It is sold in drugstores as products like "Man Delay"-www.condomusa.com/condoms/8d04-mand.html etc. and some condoms contain it. It numbs the dick, like cocaine is supposed to (Jack Nicholson has long recommended coke for problems with premature ejaculation), not that I'd know the slightest thing about anything illegal. In my case, my dick is quite insensitive, so I can relentlessly and indefinitely plow away like the most jaded porn worker. Cool, especially for the lucky lady interested in "stamina", but does anyone know of blast-furnace extreme hot-sauce type lubricants or their ingredients? I've tried some "hot oil" type stuff from sex shops but it seemed pretty tame. I guess it's a fine line between something that produces an intense, warm sensation, and something that's gonna leave a permanent mark, and most companies are wary!
     
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