So I just about got my wife talked into using a strap on, on me. Any recommendations? I was looking at one where she gets some stimulation also.
Thanks
It depends on the woman. Some women are more readily orgasmic from direct external stimulation. I bought my woman a harness that had a hole thru which the flared end of the dildo could be fit... ( in addition to the ring and snaps ) this placed the rubber base of the dildo directly against her clit and the area immediately above it... the she was very sensitive.
Every time she thrust in, it would press and rub the rubber base against her and she would always have at least two or three powerful orgasms while she fucked me rather savagely. She insisted that her cock had to be bigger than mine so we ended up with a massive and lifelike dildo with 9 full inches of penetrable length.
There are others that have a second inward facing head... or a even a BULB like thing that fits up inside her and supposedly hold the thing in place without a harness.... but those never worked very well if at all.
For a really profound assfucking, you really need her to be wearing a proper harness. Something that will allow her to go wild without anything slipping out of place.
train for it though. Something like the Njoy 2.0 is good for daily wear and training... and a dildo close to the harness size you can use on yourself before a session will help as well.
Key tip... have her shove it in with a slow and steady push, and then HOLD it there for about 20 seconds...before she starts to stroke in and out... and then to start stroking slowly... but with near full depth.
This is really helpful in getting your to relax- the initial penetration causes a spasm... and fucking to vigorously too quickly can make it really painful. Give it a moment for you to relax into the penetration... and then have her build from there.