Pegging

Discussion in 'Women's Issues' started by Beth1982, Jun 27, 2008.

  1. Beth1982

    Beth1982 New Member

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    When I'm going down on my man, when I play with his balls and go a bit lower he doesn't flinch when I get around his anus like most men do. Does this mean he'd be open to pegging? I've tried anal myself many times and it's pretty nice as a once in a while thing, but how is it for guys?

    If he does like anal play, but is embarrassed to talk about it, how do I coax him into trying it or expressing his likes for it? Should I grab a vibe or dong and tease him with it next time I'm down there and see how he reacts? I'd like to try it and see what it's like from that perspective. I have a strap on from when I dated a woman a few years ago and if things go well maybe we could we try that.
     
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    If things don't work out with him....call me and let me know! you sound like the perfect woman for me lol
     
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    Talk to him about it. That's the only way you'll ever know.
     
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    I wouldn't scare him off with a strap-on. Just work on getting one, then two three fingers up his butt. If he's agreeable, a small vibrator or butt plug might be the next step. It's amazing how many men (both "straight" and gay) I've gone down on over the years who suddenly erupted buckets when I started to work their butts with a lubed finger. Absolutely astonishing. I'm not wired that way, but it never ceases to amaze me how many men are; even straight men. :rolleyes:
     
  5. D_Shia LePoof

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    Anal for men is awesome! If they are open to it. I'd say rim him & massage his hole with your vibe. That should lead to penetration later with fingers or a dong. Save the strapon for last! Always save the best for last :D I love it but discovered it alone, wish my woman was more into it!
    You sound fun
     
  6. The Dragon

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    When I'm giving fellatio I roll his perineum and then when he's really "lost in the moment" I'll roll the ball of my thumb against his anus.

    As he gets close to cumming his anus will start to pulse and almost start to draw your thumb in.
    It's all steady steady as she goes , never rushing madly into it and for the love of christ don't even mention it unless he brings it up!
    Most straight guys still equate any anal stimulation and liking it with being gay (which we know isn't right).
    You build up to the whole strap-on/pegging once he's had time to wrap his head around the fact he actually likes the stimulation and it isn't a threat to his hetro sexuality.
    Some never get to that point but will still enjoy fingers inserted and prostrates massaged.

    I do this as a matter of course with all my straight lovers and I've only ever had two who bucked and whinnied and let me know under no certain circumstances that it just wasn't on!
     
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    That's how the mrs talked me into it. And it kinda messes with your head at first but once you realize its just sex and if it feels good its usually right lol. Definitely a fun experience and role reversal.
     
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    Holey smokes Batman! I love it, just wished my wife was more into it. If you're ever in Houston and want to practice until you get it right, just give me a call.

    The times my wife has taken me from behind, I have an unusual urge to suck a dick and I'm 101% straight. The first time it happened, she was using a strap-on dildo without the harness and was working it with her hands. At first, there wasn't much to it, but after several minutes of stroking in and out, I started getting more and more desperate for something to suck on. I even yelled out loud that I would suck a dick if one were available.

    I believe I could give oral to completion as long as I was getting pegged. It's such a super feeling horny for me!
     
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    not really sure if the desire to suck a dick and being 101% straight are compatable
     
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    Well, I've never - ever - done it and have no desire to seek another man out to satisfy a craving. I only get the urge when I'm being taken anally. I don't know, maybe it's a secret desire and pegging brings it out. You might be right. But, I can guarantee that unless there is a waiting penis while I'm being pegged, I'll never know. LOL
     
  11. The Dragon

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    I wouldn't worry it too much about it, wiser dude.

    It's fairly normal to have the sub lube up a strapon with his own saliva before it's used on him.
    Extra lube can be applied once you get actually down to business.
    Getting him to suck or even deep throat a second dildo is not exactly unheard of. It's all part of the domination and what falls within the understood consensual limits of both parties.
     
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    ^This. Stop worrying about what label you may gain from a single act and just enjoy sex. That's my 2 cents.
     
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    Why don't you ask him? I don't know the guy, and probably will never meet him.
     
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    psst "she" has not posted in almost 3 years
     
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    good point. hoist from my own 'tard, I am.:biggrin1:
     
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    Well, all of my experience with pegging is with my wife and she is extra vanilla when it comes to sex. She has never (and would never) try to dominate me although I would like to explore female domination. The thought of me being restrained and a woman or women having their way with me is just one big giant turn on.

    If you've read the Pegging posts, you'll know that I love being pegged and have a strong desire to suck dick when the pegging reaches the three or four minute mark. As long as thrusting is proceeding, I just crave a dick, but have no idea why since I've been marred for forty years to the same woman and don't ever think about such things any other time.

    It would be a huge turn on for me to be restrained, taken from behind, have a penis force fed to me with me being forced to his completion and swallow the load (maybe more than once).
     
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