I'm sure there is a thread on this, but... Anybody else (no matter what orientation) been in a relationship where penetration is OUT? I'm in a situation now where, my girth has caused problems of pain and even bleeding for the guy taking me. Out of respect for his feelings, and his pain, i very rarely, if ever, engage in penetration. I understand. there is more to sex than getting your dick inside someone, and i love the rest of it, but, sometimes i think...never? wow. Has anyone else ever had to call that part of sex "quits" with a partner?