Hello everyone, I just wanted to seek for some advice when penetrating. Im gay, 38 yrs old, Ive considered myself to be verse/bottom, because most of my sexual life I used to bttm, with some few experiences being a top, that went so so, but I never quite felt good bc it gave me some sort of anxiety.
The thing is lately Ive been working out some mental issues and now I feel more comfortable topping, but Ive had some difficulties at the beginning of the penetration. Ive never considered myself to be "hung", just average since it 6.7 in, and 5.5 in circumference, but apparently it "is" kinda big at least according to the bttms ive been with lately. I have some pics on my profile. I get frustrated at the beginning bc they say it hurts, then i lose my erection and it gives me anxiety and you get the idea. How do you deal with the start of penetration, or how to deal with anxiety or the fear of hurting him, specially those on the bigger side, thanks in advice.
The thing is lately Ive been working out some mental issues and now I feel more comfortable topping, but Ive had some difficulties at the beginning of the penetration. Ive never considered myself to be "hung", just average since it 6.7 in, and 5.5 in circumference, but apparently it "is" kinda big at least according to the bttms ive been with lately. I have some pics on my profile. I get frustrated at the beginning bc they say it hurts, then i lose my erection and it gives me anxiety and you get the idea. How do you deal with the start of penetration, or how to deal with anxiety or the fear of hurting him, specially those on the bigger side, thanks in advice.