Penis curiosity...

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  1. txquis

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    I'm posting this in this section, since
    it deals with coworkers, significant others,
    friends, or anybody whose penis we have had a curiosity about...

    We have lots of questions here about our sizes, naturally...
    and i was just wondering about my own curiosity
    about penises...
    not about my family members ever,
    but about friends, coworkers...guys i am attracted to..
    someone i pass on the street

    I usually have a curiosity to know about their penis
    or sometimes their measurements...not
    necessarily to compare them to mine...

    this has been a curiosity of mine
    since i was a teenager, although i never
    gawked in lockerrooms,
    or hung around waiting to see someone's cock...

    Still, if the opportunity arose in conversation,
    or while changing...i always was/am curious.

    Making my way back to the new and improved LPSG recently
    i thought, "Oh GOOD, we have a GALLERY now!"
    And then i also thought, "why do i care?"

    I know some people could not care less.

    I have always been a little ashamed of my curiosity
    about penises.

    Maybe my shame comes from the fact that deep down i find
    obsession with someone's appearance...especially
    the appearance of their genitals... as shallow?

    Still, i cant deny that i like to look.
    People fall in a "do or dont" category on this issue...
    and it doesnt seem to matter if you are straight or bi or gay or
    male or female...
    Some like to "see"
    and some dont.

    Now that i've reached the end of this i'm not sure
    what my point was, or what response i am looking for...
    perhaps its just an observation...
    or a hope to not be ashamed of it, by admitting it?
    Not sure.
    :unsure:
    Anybody else out there have
    a big curiosity about this and
    feel kinda weird about it?
     
  2. benderten2001

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    txquis,

    I hope (and, I think you are) that you are WAY younger than me.
    So, please listen to this old fogy. ;)

    At age 47, (three years ago), I finally got over my guilt trip about wondering what the next guy had. I realized (if true honesty really prevails) that ALL men quite naturally wonder about such things. This community of great guys and gals helped convince me I wasn't alone in my curiosity. --And, what a relief!

    As bad as the guilt trip is for us men especially to be so naturally curious, (even envious of other men!) it's that stupid labeling thing of supposing we're gay, bi, etc. when we admit to all our wondering. --That angers me. It's plain stupid.

    Life is too short to fret over this. So, you think about penises; what you have and the next guy, and how you might compare. --So what?

    Hey. You're okay. Normal. Move on with life and be happy. :D
     
  3. D_Humper E Bogart

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    For me, it's about respect. While there's people who for me "may" be interesting, they deserve respect in that I wont bitch about it.

    Here, well, I don't mind if people show, or don't. I had mine up for a while, but took it down because I felt anyone who was interested and knew me, probably has seen it by now.

    What I'm trying to say is, you're normal, relax and feast your eyes on the man-beauty (and the Zora-beauty, of course).
     
  4. Imported

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    kamakazedaddy: Bender is eloquent as always and there's not much more I can add that he hasn't said. Let's face it, penises are beautiful amazing things. We have a strong bond with our penises from boy hood....what's not to like about it?! Like Benderten, it has taken me a long time to shrug off the lables and feel comfortable with who and what I am. (I'm 43, and I was sexual from the age of 9 or 10 and it tormented me. I always wondered if I was normal. ) Sociey's stigmas still flash warning signs in the back of my mind, but I've come to realize that I am "human" and I was programmed to feel these emotions since birth. I've decided to enjoy all that is human including admiring a nice cock, enjoying a good fatening cheesecake, climbing mountains, being scared shitless, and feeling the sun on my face even though there's a couple of ozone holes up there. In the end when our time is up on this planet, I don't want to say, "I regret..." I want to say, " I had a full life. I've done it all!"
     
  5. txquis

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    Well, age might have something to do with the way I feel...
    but, unlike benterten's suspicions,
    i'm not that young...
    i am in my mid thirties...

    And i think my worry, or shame about certain
    sexual things had to do with the age in which i
    became a gay man:

    no internet,
    no role models,
    nothing to show me i was normal.

    I'm glad i have LPSG.
     
  6. Imported

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    maverackstud8: I think,if a guy is sexually secure,looking at a guys penis,from the safety of a magazine or internet dosen't your gay.Woman look at mens mags.so that dosen't em lesbeans.

    I worried about being gay for 22 seconds as a teen.I was looking a picture of the Fantastic Four.I noticed how handsome Reed Richards was as leader of the group.

    Suddenly.thought fuck does make me gay ?I got chills.

    But I thought ok,Reed's goodlooking guy for a comic hero,but shit can't BE gay-cause

    Sue Richards next him was hot.and fuck,I'd love to fuck her brain dead and stupid

    The point,you admire a guy for looks,brains,atheletic ability,cock size whatever,but if you want to fuck last months Playmate or that actress or stripper or porn model or whover,don't worry about it.

    Being curious is natural.
     
  7. jonb

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    Yeah, but what kind of articles are in a copy of Inches anyway? LOL Probably about the same fair as in Playboy.

    As for Reed Richards, might I recommend that new book On the Down Low? It isn't just a black thing, even though the media makes it out to be. (Thank you, South Park, for showing that married white men who have sex with men exist as well.)

    Seriously, though, one fantasy does not a homosexual make.
     
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    Of course Brodie Bruce, from the movie Mallrats, is far too preoccupied with superhero sex organs.

    He asked Stan Lee, if Reed Richards could stretch every part of his body, even you know.
     
  9. madame_zora

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    I found lpsg because I keyed "big dicks" into google! I have often felt ashamed of my desire to look at nude men, and our society doesn't offer them up as bait like they do nude women. It is still taboo to show erections in movies, like they're dirty or something! Being gay, str8, or any variance in between it is normal to be curious, end of story! I am so grateful for this site, I am constantly learning more and feeling more comfort in my own skin. I posted my pics in the gallery because I thought it only fair since I enjoy the sights there so much, but I completely respect anyone decision to post or not post pics, as they see fit. I hope you find your experience here as rewarding as I do.
     
  10. txquis

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    Thanks so much for that wonderful reply Madame Zora (and all)...
    I've been at LPSG for well over a year now,
    and i'm still grateful for the support.
     
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    There are several similar threads here; looking, watching, leering, gawking, being watched, showing off, loooking and wondering, touching, grabbing, etc.

    We're sexual beings. It's natural to look and show. The degree to which that occurs, however, is what makes it appropriate or not for the situation.

    I like to show off occasionally. I love to watch guys and wonder what they're packing. I also wonder how big his mouth is if he opens up really wide (but that's another topic). If it's at work, it's obviously *very* subtle. If it's at a bar or around the lakes, then it's a little more open, but still not what would be considered gawking -- I know I feel uncomfotable in those situations so I wouldn't want to make someone else feel uncomfotable.
     
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    joe22xxx: Like was said on another thread on LPSG, I don't mind having a big dick, but I don't particularly like being called one.
     
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    Don't be girl!

    I'm really pleased to hear that your time on LPSG has helped break down your guilt.
     
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    Okay, then TSB, answer me this- how do you feel as a gay man that a woman is looking at your pics (I don't know if you have any up or not, but theoretically speaking) ?? Or any of the gay guys, please feel free to respond. It's the one thing on here I feel a little wierd about, like I'm invading territory or something.
     
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    The answer has to be theoretical because I do not have any pics posted on LPSG or anywhere else on the internet. If someone does place pictures in the public domain - and that's what they're doing by placing on the internet - then, by definition, anyone can look at them. If I had any publicly available, the fact that you or any other woman looked at them would not bother me in the slightest. After all, if it did upset the poster then the poster shouldn't have placed them in the public domain in the first place.

    So, as I said above, don't feel embarrassed or ashamed about it girl - get lookin' at those cocks!! :)
     
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    Warning: Off Topic

    OK, "public domain" has legal connotations that imply they are free of copyright, and that's not true.

    On Topic:

    I only bring this up because I don't mind people looking at my pics, that's why I post/share them. However, I do have issues when I find my pictures showing up on 'amateur' and commercial sites without my permission, thus making money off my image. Just because it's posted on the internet does not make it free, regardless of whether it's been formally copyright registered or not.
     
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    We like to be admired too! If we (straight-gay-curved-bent-bi-confused-whatever) didn't want you looking the pix wouldn't be here. Welcome!
     
  18. Imported

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    maverackstud8: madame,you can invade my territory anytime.

    wink wink
     
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    When I danced, plenty of straight women came to the gay clubs to see the dancers. Why didn't they go to see the male dancers at the Ladies Only clubs? They explained that the dancers in the gay clubs were much hotte, not to mention that you never got a glimpse of cock in the Ladies' clubs. (Not that one is really supposed to see them in the gay clubs either, but there are ways around that! ;) ) How did I feel? Flattered. Who doesn't feel appreciative that people of either sex finds him sexually attractive? I'm not adverse to being told I'm 'hot', whether it comes from a man or a woman. If a woman enjoys looking at me, let her! After all, I may take a look at her hot, straight boyfriend as well!
     
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    maverackstud8: Some gay guy wanted to trade pictures-it was very flattering,but I told him no thanks.I figured,he might get confused and figured there was a potential relationship-after it might have been the guy,that talked on the street and figured who I was anyway.Also,I figure this,too-tif I had pictures up,I figure gay,strait,male or female,I would not mind too much.
    And if you post stop up on the web,without any sort of copy right or user id protection,you should not be conplainning.
    After all,if your dum enough to post pictures annonimously,then expect some unknown person to not use your material in anyway fit,then you get what you asked for.
     
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