Penis envy/jealousy

Discussion in 'Relationships, Discrimination, and Jealousy' started by B_Jennuine73, Oct 24, 2007.

  1. B_Jennuine73

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    I don't know whether this is in the right category or not.

    I am wondering how many of well hung guys were on the receiving end of jealousy because of your size? If you were, how did you handle it? When did it start? Did it cause problems for you psychologically? Did you avoid certain situations?

    A friend of mine told me he is being teased quite a bit at the gym and feels hostility from the other men.:mad:
     
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    Since I don't usually hang out nude with other men, the only penis envy I get is from women....
     
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    There is no psychological problem for me. Being teased? Yeah, only one of my friends teases me about that, but no big deal. Jealousy from others? No.
     
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    OK.
    assume you are(well hung). So what? The 1st priority of ANY male is to compare. We are animals. Raise your leg and piss on the pole.
    Handle it? Flaunt it.
    (problems?) Opportunity
    Situations? any situation to give one a chance to show off (especially, but not limited to my peer group of young ladies)
    Teased?
    When last has this guy been in a gym?You don't get "teased"... you get "cruised". and if you cannot handle that, go to a different gym.
     
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    Yep.. Ive got a good cause of cock envy. Oh the fun you guys must have.

    Very jealous
     
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    Not all, but the majority of smaller guys(cock size)treat me like shit, and sometimes they`ll even go as far as to try and character assasinate me.

    lafever
     
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    Character assassinate?

    Looks like someone's planning on being a drama queen this Halloween... :rolleyes:
     
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    i'm not a big boy...and i am jealous of men with large penises =[
    i TRY not to use that as a means of discrimination, but...i guess i may naturally from time to time
     
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    See, my point well taken, another jelous crayon.

    lafever
     
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    lol a crayon?
     
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    Yeah, i call the haters crayons, i think i`ve coined the expression.

    lafever
     
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    Not on the large side here...but definitely a little jealous. I mean, it's not ruining my life and there are much higher priorities for me, but I'd be lying if I said I wasn't a bit jealous.

    However, I wouldn't take it out on someone with a large penis...or anyone for that matter.
     
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    Atleast your honest about it, i admire that quality in a person, it`s hard to find.(And no, that`s not a crack at you.)

    lafever
     
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    Oh, color me green, alright. Mere words can't describe the envy I feel for you...can't convey how jelous[sic] I am. Who wouldn't be? I mean, with your incredible display of intelligible grammatical construction, your adorable use of backticks instead of apostrophes, your rebellious disregard for capitalization conventions, that masterful grasp of clever metaphorical description (Crayon? You coined that yourself? WOW!), your ineffable propensity for superflously signing each post...and of course, there's the gargantuan dimension of your manhood! It's a wonder that people don't simply swoon in your presence.
     
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    Everything i do is designed to annoy those who are anal about everything and everything, you must admitt, you`re rattled. I`m quite the clever one, yes?

    lafever
     
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    Got a lot more grief when I was younger. And it really caused a lot of anxiety. So I actually had penis envy of the regular guys for years. I mean it's just a dick. Didn't make me smarter, stronger, or more popular (at the time it was just the opposite). So I never equated bigger with better.

    Lots of "therapy" in the form of loving partners made me appreciate the difference as much as they do.
     
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    I must admitt, my literary skills came about by accident, i never felt the need for conformity or someone elses ideas of how i should write. Having alot of sex in high school was my biggest influence, along with living my life while others were reading about it. I don`t read books, i don`t even have a book collection. This is my philosophy, why waste all that time reading when i can be living life in the hear and now, i do things people have only dreamed of.
    Over the years i`ve noticed how my writing skills seperates the trully anal and overly serious from the kind hearted loving people that i have in my life, so i`ve decided to keep the format. I`ve even extended my writing to the way i talk, it works quite well, sorting out the trash that is, and i`ve avoided alot of wasted life by keeping the trully boring and want to bees from clogging up the works.

    lafever

    P.s. I guess in a way having a large cock has allowed myself to live however i want, does that make others jelous? Who gives a shit.
     
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    I had a buddy who would awkwardly bring it up alot. One day in the mens run he just got up the urinal and looked over at it and was like HOLY fuck man your huge. he was a great guy and was always excited and happy so it got really weird that he was so excited that I was big. He was a little nympho, and now makes low end porn. he would just throw statments about it out when we were in groups
     
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    What do you think would have made a difference? If you could tell yourself, when you were younger, a good way to handle the anxiety and teasing, what would you say?
    Thanks for replying.
     
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    What would have made a difference? Treating me like a normal person would have been a great start. I knew I was larger, but I did not think it made a difference; I mean, I never compared myself with anyone and said "because I'm bigger I'm better than you," because I was very small in stature and I knew they could whip my ass.

    If I could have convinced myself that it didn't make a difference I probably would have been better. But it's very hard to think that way when everybody says you're different.

    So for the first 20 years I felt inferior. The next 10 I tried to make up for it by being as promiscuous as possible. The last 10 or so I've been in very stable relationships that keep me on an even keel.

    With peer pressure and low self-esteem, however, there's no way I could have come out any different unless I would have had at least one understanding soul reaffirming me.
     
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