Penis Not Responding!

Discussion in 'Relationships, Discrimination, and Jealousy' started by NottsBound, Sep 13, 2010.

  1. NottsBound

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    I just broke up with my girlfriend a few days ago, been pretty heart broken about it..but what ever. anyways, I had a girl in my bed last night after a house party, she came on pretty hard and grabbed the little man..but it wasnt responding...it wasnt getting hard or anything!

    Is it normal this kinda thing? It's really embarrassing because the girl must think what the hell is going on with me :\

    Has anyone had this kinda thing before?
     
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    They have minds of their own.
     
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    This is perfectly normal.
    If you've never had a problem before ... that would be abnormal (and great luck, of course).

    You don't mention your age. Would you mind me asking? These problems are very age related.
     
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    are you on any anti-depressants or do you smoke? If you answered yes to either one of them, then you've got your culprit.

    If you are tired, stressed, depressed, etc. then erectile issues tend to arise
     
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    Or on blood pressure meds.

    Quite often, but not necessarily.

    Yup.
    But sometimes no one knows why Peter's got no rise and shine.
     
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    Its called Emo-dick. Give yourself some time. Your heart's not in it and for some guys that means your penis isn't either. Hope the hurt eases soon *hugz*.
     
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    Or maybe he's just ona break from any sex-related activities. Breaking up can require a lot of adjustment and your sex appetite might be hurt because of that. Maybe you just need to give it a little time. You just need to listen to what your body wants. If it wants to take a time off from sex, then maybe it's what you should give it. Then, Yyu'll be up and horny again, don't worry dude... :)
     
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    lol...

    You are my hero o' the day.
     
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    most likely your stressed out


    i could not even get a hard on at all last week
     
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    It happens to the best of us...Just try not to think about it; which I realize is easier said than done
     
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    There could have been any number of reasons why that particular girl and that particular time did not work out, including what you had to drink at your house party, what she smelled like once you were sober, whether she seemed about to tear it off, whatever. Nobody finds all members of the opposite sex attractive enough to screw.
     
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    Um its most likely the breakup factor.If you had deep feelings for this chic the breakup could have some effect on your penis? Just give it some time,it'll come around,and if you didnt have feelings for this girl then i have no fucking clue dude.
     
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    It's happened to TheBF, too. A childhood friend of his died too young at the same time that we having extremely serious money issues and the economy had affected his job security and we weren't sure if he was going to have one next week or the week after that, and that would also affect whether his closest friends were also jobless or not and he was doing anything he could to fix that situation. He can handle an unbelievable amount of stress, but it was just too much and sex was the last thing he wanted. It lasted about 3 weeks.

    Things will get better. Just give it time.
     
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    All of the above!

    Or she spiked your water supply with bromide.

    An essential part of any man's wardrobe for a night should include a sexual emergency kit containing - mouthwash, mini deodarant, condoms, & 1/2 a viagra/poppers, lest your morals get the better of you.

    As you get older, & you suddenly find she wants sex more than you do - this will probably happen more!
     
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    Stress and emotion are definite passion killers. If you've just been dumped and aren't ready to move on, chances are you won't rise to the occasion. If you've been drinking too, that will make things worse. On top of that, if someone you're not really that attracted to comes on far too strong it's pretty off-putting, especially if you'd rather be with someone else.

    I'd say you've got nothing to worry about. Chalk it down to experience and move on.

    Oh, and I wouldn't start carrying viagra round with you as a matter of course unless it's been prescribed by your doctor. You shouldn't need it. If you're not that into someone to a degree where you need chemical assistance to perform, it's your body's way of saying you probably shouldn't be screwing them.
     
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    I happened to me and lasted over 4 years I tried every thing to stimulate myself and It would not work, when we got back together I could not get it to go down...
     
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    I'm 20. I did consume a small bit of alcohol too.
     
  19. NottsBound

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    Emo-dick. thanks for the hug.

    I dont know, my usual problem is trying to get it down and it's the first time the guy let me down. I just wanted to move on but I guess its too soon. Damn penis.
     
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    Penis has its own sort of smarts. :grouphug:
     
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