Penis Piercing - to look or not?

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  1. Lynx

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    OK guxs, there is a dude at my gym with a pierced cock and I am just wondering if sneaking a look is acceptable. Wouldn't wearing that at the gym (in the sauna) be kind of an invitation? Does it count kind of as looking at a guy's tattoo? Anyway, I'm good at sneaking peeks, so maybe it isn't a problem!
     
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    Oh for heaven's sake, just look...
     
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    Um, yeah. People get those things to get attention or to prove something. The first type will want you to look, the second type will just sit around and brood about it because they're all dark and complex.

    Check that shit out, yo.
     
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    Sure, look, then when he pounds your head in for being queer, you'll know it was a bad idea. lol
     
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    Just ask him a question about it, people who have genital piercings (such as myself) are more open about people looking at our piercings and asking about them. If someone saw my nipple rings and stared, I'd know why and i wouldnt mind at all.
     
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    Well, I'm the happy owner of a cock piercing and I wouldn't mind at all if someone looked, sneaked or stared. I mean, it's not like I'm embarassed of it or any thing
     
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    Exactly, wearing the piercing in, is practically an invitation, he most likely didn't get it to admire it himself, ask him how much it hurt or something, might lead way to a good convo.
     
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    I agree with what the other ladies said, having a genital piercing usually means you're open to questions about it and don't mind a little showing off.
     
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    Looking is fine..touching may not be cool (hah).
     
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    I do not mind folks looking at mine, or asking questions....
     
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    If you insist.:post::icon2::bad:
     
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    Piercings attract lots of attention. If i had one, i knew guys will OBVIOUSLY look. Ask him u want one, and how bad did it hurt etc. Take a look? Hell yes!
     
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    I never minded people asking us, about our piercings.
    Just ask him if you can look at it,I doubt he'll mind, and will probably be flattered that you've noticed it.
    My husband and I, are always open to questions, and stares,no biggie!
    cigarbabe:saevil:
     
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    I have a PA and go to a local gym as well and I don't mind at all if someone looked, sneaked or stared. I am not embarassed or anything and always go in the sauna nude. I have had people look and stare. Some have asked questions and other just sneak a peak. Just because I have a piercing is NOT an open invitation to grab my cock. Looking is fine but touching is not. That is reserved for my partner.
     
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    I concur with lilbear.
     
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    Pony boy, you know I'd have to steal a little tug :p
     
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    Of course it's okay to look. It is also okay to ask about a genital piercing. BY asking questions - politely and not touching - you learn. That's the process I went through before I got my piercings. Pictures at the end of the month - PA and 4 rung frenum ladder.
     
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    9 times out of 10 if you make the fact known you have a PA, girls will want to look, touch and try it...
     
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    BenWaaaaah - you are so absolutely right.
     
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