So... I've been lurking on here for a really, really long time. And I certainly never thought my first post would be about this. But I'm not sure where else to turn. Sex is a battlefield. Since November, every time I ejaculate, my piss slit gets very inflamed and sore. The pink, irritated skin usually gets better after a day or two. But this irritation happens every single time I come. I haven't had sex with anyone since this started, in case it's something I might spread. But I've been to the doctor several times and been tested each time for syphilis, chlamydia, and gonorrhea -- always negative. I did have an outbreak of genital herpes three weeks ago. I took a three-day course of Valtrex, but this other problem pre-dates the herpes outbreak and persists even after the Valtrex. I think I'm going to go to a urologist instead of to my primary-care doctor for this. In the meantime, does anyone have any ideas? Thanks in advance.