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Is there a way to reduce the size of penis? Surgery? Don’t get me wrong, but sex is a pain with a large penis and I just want mine to be normal / average sized. Mine is around 9 inches long and pretty thick, did not measure it, but my fingers don’t touch when jerking off...
I am really depressed sometimes about the size. It hardly fits any normal body opening, mouth, anus, vagina... i hurt my partner while having sex, so I end up jerking off most of the time...
 

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I’m not going to rip on you. I hope you’re not lying and being facetious. I’ve heard that being too big can be a burden and I’m sorry you can’t experience being fully inside someone. You must be 7” in girth if you can’t close your hand around it. Perhaps maybe find that special person who you hit it off with and is also a size queen. I don’t know if there’s a surgical procedure to reduce girth but I wouldn’t take the risk of having someone botch it and disfigure your penis. I’m Coming from the perspective of ‘I’d like to be a little bit thicker and longer’.
 

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this is supposed to be a support group, so here's some of my support. Through lack of use over time it is supposed to reduce in size, and while there's other things that can be done (reduce exercising) it's not exactly things that will also "improve" your life, or longevity.

some good news... there's a lot of size queens here, which does help make it easier to find partners for sex at least.
 
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That is the other problem, being perceived just trough the optics of a large penis. Size queens are interested in my penis and not me usually. Getting sex or getting people to be interested in sex with a large penis is not a problem, but keeping them and making a lasting relationship work, this is another story. Many are interested in my penis just for the size, but when it comes to sex not many are up to take it. Blowjobs hurt and usually anal sex is off the table when they see it. I am really frustrated about it. I keep telling myself it is not all about sex, but then my sex life is reduced to jerking off.
 
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That is the other problem, being perceived just trough the optics of a large penis. Size queens are interested in my penis and not me usually. Getting sex or getting people to be interested in sex with a large penis is not a problem, but keeping them and making a lasting relationship work, this is another story. Many are interested in my penis just for the size, but when it comes to sex not many are up to take it. Blowjobs hurt and usually anal sex is off the table when they see it. I am really frustrated about it. I keep telling myself it is not all about sex, but then my sex life is reduced to jerking off.

I often hear that finding someone who is into you and not just your huge dick is a problem many well hung guys face. That does suck (no pun intended). I guess it’s the equivalent of a woman with huge tits (almost... they don’t insert their tits in anything except for being sucked on). I guess the question is this: do you want to be a stud and be into just sex - maybe go into porn and be part of those who cherish huge dicks? You might find that one person who loves you and can take it. Anyway, I’d hold off on the surgical idea. Imagine getting it botched and then getting an infection. Be careful what you ask for. Good luck.
 

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My cock measures:
Length bone pressed along top. 8.8 inches
Girth mid shaft. 6.6 inches
Girth base. 7.25 inches

Blow jobs have been few and far between. Of course teeth become a problem.

I have been with many women, only refused by one. Have been with many men , none have ever refused penetration. I am pleased with my size. Here is a measured head shot. 20190815_210222.jpg
 

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To Scta123:

My cock measures:
Length bone pressed along top. 8.8 inches
Girth mid shaft. 6.6 inches
Girth base. 7.25 inches

Blow jobs have been few and far between. Of course teeth become a problem.

I have been with many women, only refused by one. Have been with many men , none have ever refused penetration. I am pleased with my size. Here is a measured head shot. View attachment 26095661

glad that it works for you. I know people are different and while it is not difficult to find a willing partner to try it is a different tune making a relationship work when having sex is physically hurting partner or myself. In that case you start avoiding sex and than sex becomes an issue and what happens to relationship we al know...
 

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I mean, he was asking a clear question, yet everyone in here tries to convince the OP not to do it.

You should all be ashamed of your own greedy behavior.

Back to topic:
As far as I've heard, not using it can kind of shrink your dick. Some say locking the dick in a penis cage / chastity, could help by that.

At first the testosterone will raise, but after some time the testosterone level will drop down, which will support the shrinking of the dick.

I have no idea how much it can shrink and how long it will take, even no idea how effective this is for real, but it's worth a try.
 

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in the meantime I consulted one urology surgery specialist from UK. He had done few of the reductions, length is less problematic than girth. there are options there, but it is a serious surgery. I will wait for this covid business to be over to consult in person and then see my options, but since he explained the surgery I am a bit hesitant about it. I need to know more and maybe just talking about my frustration and maybe finding people that understand it might help too. well it is a journey...
 

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Is there a way to reduce the size of penis? Surgery? Don’t get me wrong, but sex is a pain with a large penis and I just want mine to be normal / average sized. Mine is around 9 inches long and pretty thick, did not measure it, but my fingers don’t touch when jerking off...
I am really depressed sometimes about the size. It hardly fits any normal body opening, mouth, anus, vagina... i hurt my partner while having sex, so I end up jerking off most of the time...


Yeah get prostate cancer and have a prostatectomy
 

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I mean, he was asking a clear question, yet everyone in here tries to convince the OP not to do it.

You should all be ashamed of your own greedy behavior.

Back to topic:
As far as I've heard, not using it can kind of shrink your dick. Some say locking the dick in a penis cage / chastity, could help by that.

At first the testosterone will raise, but after some time the testosterone level will drop down, which will support the shrinking of the dick.

I have no idea how much it can shrink and how long it will take, even no idea how effective this is for real, but it's worth a try.


Absolute nonsense. testosterone has no impairment on penis size.
 

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There is a theory, and evidence to support the idea that the level of testosterone a fetus is subjected to during the period of genital differentiation has an effect on the outcome of the size of the penis. This is also influenced by the genes which the individual receives at the time of conception.