Penis sensitivity Issues and Questions

[d_man01]

OK first of IM new here but I have been reading alot on these forums for the past few months and now I have a few questions my self I want to ask.

Lets get to the main issues first. My first question comes about sensitivity.

My bf and I have been in a relation ship for over a year and half. Yes, everything is great between us. However lately tbh the past year Ive had alot of sensitivity issues. My bf is able to come of oral sex, anal sex, and even me jacking him off. Yet, I feel pleasure during oral sex but not enough stimulation to work up and orgasim. Same with Anal sex. When it comes to him trying to jack me off we have tried for over an hour before and he couldnt bring me to a climax. I find sometimes when im Jacking off my self, that I have to tenese up my whole body almost to the point I start sweating and moving my hand very fast just to build up and orgasim. I find that I cant even orgasim using lubrication. Yes, I am circumsized. very tightly could this have anything to do with it ? he actually as a medium to loose cut. So is there something wrong with me or is there something I can take to help increase my sensitivity, because he and I both want him to be able to please me like I can him.

(Ok I know that was alot to read but here is my next question)

I feel out off place for some reason, when I look at porn, and or other guys including my bf their dicks seem to be in proportion to the size of their head and shaft. On my penis I have a very small head, then right after my head my shaft seems to expand and then getting toward the pass it shrinks back down. Does anyone know what causes this ? Im almost scared that I have done something to my penis while growing up and going thru puberty of course I never was taught how to jackoff so I found my self almost doing prone masturbation (Sp?) and im almost scared to think I have TMS. By the way I'm 20 years old.

I thank you if you take the time to read this and provide some feedback, Ive been to multiple urologist and they said their is nothing I can do for my problems and they kinda laughed at me. So, if anyone has any anwsers I look Foward to reading them.


Thank You

 

[SteveHd]

d_man01, interesting first post. I'll give it some thought and write a reply tomorrow.

 

[d_man01]

Thanks SteveHd, and yes I know there are some grammer and spelling mistakes in the post. I wrote it kinda fast, but im looking forward to some your replies

 

[SteveHd]

... masturbation (Sp?) ...

Spelled correctly!

Now the bad news: You've already done the best thing: go to a Urologist better yet multiple Urologists.

Sensitivity:

I guess you've been reading in various threads about circ. and loss of sensitivity. Your frenulum and frenar band are gone forever. Nothing can substitute for them. The exposed glans supposedly keratinizes and loses sensitivity over time. Many circ'd guys who say they lost sensitivity are usually in their 30s and 40s when they begin noticing it. So at age 20 you're rather young for that. But doesn't mean you don't have loss due to keratinization. In the foreskin restoration boards there are guys your age who've experienced notable sensitivity improvements during their F/R. But that's more bad news, F/R is a multi-year commitment and requires a lot of motivation.

Small head:

If there was something truly abnormal, all of your Urologists would have discussed it. If it was borderline then maybe one of them might have mentioned it. My guess is it's not as unusual as you think.

I don't know what "TMS" denotes. I did a websearch and the most plausible thing I could find is "Tension Myositis Syndrome" and that looks specious, I/M/O.

Lastly, you didn't mention any therapy. If not already tried, I'd suggest a sex therapist. Sometimes they can help.

 

[d_man01]

all right Steve Ill deff look into that. Ive thought about restoring my for skin so I may go ahead and start that. And yes Ive been considering therapy for awhile now.

 

[D_Crystallized Ginger]

VERY INTERESTING POST... expecially for me.. I have the same problems as yours... I can't come from oral, nor from received jerking off and it takes long time to have an orgams while regular fucking my girl .. I joined a PE routine for 2 months and I have always masturbated almost 1 time per day since I was 10 years old on average (and with an aggressive style too) .. my fear is that I've damaged my nerves and veins on the skin and deeper tissues ... climax is something rare nowadays for me... please somebody help me soon!