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Discussion in 'Relationships, Discrimination, and Jealousy' started by B_Marius567, Aug 8, 2009.
I do not have a big ego but wonder if men with a large penis have big egos?
I've known small-dicked guys with big egos, and large-dicked guys with inferiority complexes
I'm probably one of the most modest person I know when it comes to anything. But I don't necessarily think I have that big of a dick so Iuno
Haha, yep this is dead on.
when i was in the sex biz.....the big dick guys esp peter north....he thinks he is god,
the big guys knew what they had and so did the women porn stars. egos were huge to go along with the cocks. i was always told that guys that touch them selves in public have smaller cocks than those that dont. i wear black jogging pants....if i wear white pants...all can see. i dont like underwear. the rappers are always touching themselves. we all know how big there egos are.
Nah. I'm schizophrenic, not a jackass!
I have a bigger penis and a big ego, and I'm sure that penis size correlates to part of my ego. I enjoy sex and have had a wonderful sex life for many decades and it's still wonderful. Part of my wonderful sex life and the lovely women I've been with is due to my sexual confidence, which is partly fuelled by my size. The largest part of my ego is due to my intelligence and the things I have done beyond sex, and the success I have had in many endeavours. And success breeds success, more ego gives you the encouragement to try difficult things and succeed, which is more satisfying, and so on.
So I believe my size is a part of it, as good relationships and good sex are part of being a man.
Nothing is definite.
And I touch myself, because sometimes when i'm talking my dick gets hard or a chubby. I have to adjust, lol.
I have a lot of confidence (some might think that it is ego) but it comes from accomplishments/success in life and nothing to do with what hangs between my legs.
I've always been extremely introverted and shy. It wasn't till my junior year in high school that I went through puberty and became very big very fast. I endured a lot of teasing as a result, which only added to my shyness, so from my own perspective, I'd have to say a large penis doesn't always make a large ego.
i guess it depends on what we mean by "ego." because there's a world of difference between actual confidence and arrogance. i'm proud that i have a big dick, but it's not the end all be all of my being...i'm just as proud that i have a great smile, a pleasant singing voice and that i can get on a stage in front of large groups of people without wetting myself. so does my confidence spring from being hung? not any moreso than any other attribute of myself that i take pride in. and i have enough else to take pride in that i don't need to overcompensate by acting like an arrogant douchebag because the ONLY thing i have going for me is a big dick.
so it CAN affect a man's ego in a number of ways, but there's no direct correlation between big dick and big ego.
If a person has a great life in all other respects and does not live their life based only based on sex or on the size of their penis, then the ego would be dependent on other factors in the life of that given individual.
In my lifetime I have known a few men who were in fact ashamed of and went to great lengths to hide their size fearing rejection. It would depend on the life experience of that individual.
One man I know had been rejected so much based on his size that it really made a mess of his life. Just like many who are fearful or ashamed of being small because of life experiences, there are just as many who are unusually large that have the same problem.
I do not think that size alone is a determining factor. The life experience of the individual is the determining factor.
An individual in the porn industry is going to make his judgments based on his life. If the only life the individual has is shooting porn and receiving accolades for the size of something he was handed genetically, then, this being the only "big thing" is going to be what that individual talks about and his only subject.
I'm 56 now and date back in porn to many no longer with us. The last one I knew now gone from that era in my life was Dan Wesling. Dan understood the difference between what he earned through his work in porn versus what the rest of his life was. He was a great guy.
Most men are individuals, and I do not personally think a genetic spin of the roulette wheel determines anything other than penis size. What they do with it is based on everything the person experiences and accomplishes in life.