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joe1981

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My dad has known I am gay and was fine with it for years.We were on a family vacation and stayed at a condo.My dad walked into a connecting bathroom and ran into my boyfriend and both of them were naked.My boyfriend is really hung and my dad hasn't liked him since that day.My dad is big and was always bigger than me but is smaller than my boyfriend.He walked in on a guy fucking me once when I was 16 and even liked him but he was smaller than my dad.
 

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not knocking your dad, but some men always have to be top of the heap in everything. It probably eats some men alive to see a man hung better than him.

I used to work with a guy like that. He wore bulge enhancement you could see coming before you'd see him. He was the only one that didn't know how obvious it was.
 

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My dad has known I am gay and was fine with it for years.We were on a family vacation and stayed at a condo.My dad walked into a connecting bathroom and ran into my boyfriend and both of them were naked.My boyfriend is really hung and my dad hasn't liked him since that day.My dad is big and was always bigger than me but is smaller than my boyfriend.He walked in on a guy fucking me once when I was 16 and even liked him but he was smaller than my dad.

Don't let you Dad's reaction to your b/f...sway you away from your b/f. Your dad will either get over it or not. Just be grateful you have your father on your side. Most gay men lose their fathers when they come out to their parents. How hung is your b/f ?
 

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I guess he's feeling like less of a man since he isn't the biggest guy he knows now. He should really get over it though, because it really isn't something to obsess over. I've seen guys who are bigger than me and I'm okay with it.
 

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It's funny cause it could have gone the other way and your Dad could have respected your boyfriend more due to his larger size, I guess your Dad is too alpha.
 

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Sometimes the concept of having a child who is gay is easier to take, because its more like out of sight, out of mind. But if you bump into his boyfriend naked in a very small room like a bathroom. Then it becomes an issue of WTMI for the parent. Its like stumbling in on your parents while they were having sex. Same difference, of sorts. Goes back to WTMI.