Penis Size And Her Noise Level

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I was hoping to pick your brains.

I’m certain this topic has been discussed ad nauseam...

My wife and I have been together for 4 years and she’s always said her sexual past was basic and minimal.

I obviously doubted that...women seem to like to play that down in general?

From what I understand it’s not entirely true and the more I get from her the more I can tell she’s sort of lied...to her credit I think some things are painful and embarrassing.

sexually she had always seemed great until I found out her last couple guys before me were rather...large. Her 4 (lovely lovely) gay friends and former roommates were recalling some rather noisy nights coming from her room and the dirty texts. I’m she’s more inhibited with me and doesn’t do those things. Though I’ve certainly tried...and my memory is foggy and selective.

I remember one day in the beginning I said, “I’m Not packing an anaconda”...and she said “you’re not that small”. Ouch.

I measured myself for the first time last month. I’m chubby(ok fat) , so when I stand up it looks smaller. But I’m a hair under 7 inches long and my girth? Tapered. Smallish head and 5 inches around right under the head, mid way that goes to 5.25 and at the base it goes to 5.4 on a good day.

So I ask you folks...is it a size issue or what’s in her head? Or is she picking up on my “concerns” even though I’ve been quiet?

When I’ve dated and feel like the shit? I act like it. And that’s not a penis thing that’s a headspace thing. I think I haven’t been in the right headspace for years.
 
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I think you may find it's not as big a deal as it seems.

Some women may downplay their sexual past out of fear their current significant other may disapprove. Believe me, if she loves you it doesn't matter whether she's been with four guys or four thousand; it's you she chose.

From what you described, you are certainly not small. Definitely enough to get the job done. Sometimes it may be her arousal level rather than your size when it comes to her noise level.

I'll give you a good personal example: my wife, before me was with four guys. One was 4", one was 6.5", one was 10" (at least she believes he was), and her last was a little over 8". I'm right at 5" on a good day. In the end, I lucked out and she ended up with me, and has been with me for the past 16 years. Mine can be quite noisy when we're in the bedroom, and it's not my size, it's how much she's into me and how horny she is.

I doubt your size means as much to her as you might think it does. In the end it's generally men who make more out of penis size than women.
 

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I know my wife's ex bf had maybe half an inch to an inch in length, but I have more girth than he does. And she's told me that sex is more fun and varied with me because I make sure she has an orgasm/s first and then she takes care of me.
Plus I'm interested in more positions and he would just get hard and tell her to get on top and finish quick.

It's all in your head. As long as your wife is satisfied with what you're packing does it matter?
 

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From my experience noise level doesn't mean all that much. I could be wrong. Since i've only had a small number of sexual partners but the women i've been with have very rarely been noisy. If anything the less noise they made the better. Again, i could be very wrong here but imagine being at the height of orgasm yourself. How much noise do you make? Take out your breathing. No matter how fit or unfit you are. Take out the possible sounds of movement. Moments when you're short of...riding the lightening. Do you make noise? I don't. And i would imagine most women don't either. Again, could be very very wrong considering my pretty small (eww this sounds disgusting) sample size.

There's also something else i was thinking of. A survey was done once that found that when it comes to men with large or larger women in general only desired them every once in a while sexually. My guess is that since there's a much higher chance of there being pain involved with it that most women make noise because of that. And a dick consistently hitting spots in which causes both pain and noise of that nature aren't desired over time.

I just can't not do the whole talking a lot thing. Anyway, there's more. No matter who you're talking to. Women or men. The topic of penis size seems to always land on...motion in the ocean. For the longest time i had no idea what that meant or what it referred to. My guess from reading a lot of responses is that even if a guy does have large or larger there are still things he can be doing wrong with it in the bedroom.

Not being a perfect fit sort of speak. Jabbing instead of thrusting. Having mix matched rhythms with whomever they're sleeping with. Not being considerate of pain. Letting their ego get the best of them. Not understanding how much their hips or health come into play. Ignoring foreplay. Speed. Distance from blank. That sort of thing.

And i would imagine all of that wrongness at one point or another also causes moments of noise. Which are considered good for the moment because it's different or new but is then considered bad over time. With if the guy isn't aware and refuses to become aware of...equally incompatibility for the long haul sexually.

So odds are good you are the perfect fit, know to thrust instead of jab, have matching rhythms, are considerate of pain along with being a match for her when it comes to her specific amount of acceptable pain, are in control of your ego, understand how much your hips and health come into play, you pay attention to foreplay, have a mutually enjoyed speed going, have memorized the distances between you and her and generally make her go night night.

Again. I could be very very wrong here but the most compliments i've ever gotten (keep in mind small number of partners) is when they have nothing left afterward and resort to grunts and moans.
 
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“you’re not that small”

My wife told me the exact same thing. Lol. I didn't take it as a compliment either.

Coincidentally she makes very little noise during sex.
 

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you could maybe lose a few lbs and start a PE program. most everyone gains even a little bit.
and you might just try and ask her straight out. just saying.