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I was hoping to pick your brains.
I’m certain this topic has been discussed ad nauseam...
My wife and I have been together for 4 years and she’s always said her sexual past was basic and minimal.
I obviously doubted that...women seem to like to play that down in general?
From what I understand it’s not entirely true and the more I get from her the more I can tell she’s sort of lied...to her credit I think some things are painful and embarrassing.
sexually she had always seemed great until I found out her last couple guys before me were rather...large. Her 4 (lovely lovely) gay friends and former roommates were recalling some rather noisy nights coming from her room and the dirty texts. I’m she’s more inhibited with me and doesn’t do those things. Though I’ve certainly tried...and my memory is foggy and selective.
I remember one day in the beginning I said, “I’m Not packing an anaconda”...and she said “you’re not that small”. Ouch.
I measured myself for the first time last month. I’m chubby(ok fat) , so when I stand up it looks smaller. But I’m a hair under 7 inches long and my girth? Tapered. Smallish head and 5 inches around right under the head, mid way that goes to 5.25 and at the base it goes to 5.4 on a good day.
So I ask you folks...is it a size issue or what’s in her head? Or is she picking up on my “concerns” even though I’ve been quiet?
When I’ve dated and feel like the shit? I act like it. And that’s not a penis thing that’s a headspace thing. I think I haven’t been in the right headspace for years.
I’m certain this topic has been discussed ad nauseam...
My wife and I have been together for 4 years and she’s always said her sexual past was basic and minimal.
I obviously doubted that...women seem to like to play that down in general?
From what I understand it’s not entirely true and the more I get from her the more I can tell she’s sort of lied...to her credit I think some things are painful and embarrassing.
sexually she had always seemed great until I found out her last couple guys before me were rather...large. Her 4 (lovely lovely) gay friends and former roommates were recalling some rather noisy nights coming from her room and the dirty texts. I’m she’s more inhibited with me and doesn’t do those things. Though I’ve certainly tried...and my memory is foggy and selective.
I remember one day in the beginning I said, “I’m Not packing an anaconda”...and she said “you’re not that small”. Ouch.
I measured myself for the first time last month. I’m chubby(ok fat) , so when I stand up it looks smaller. But I’m a hair under 7 inches long and my girth? Tapered. Smallish head and 5 inches around right under the head, mid way that goes to 5.25 and at the base it goes to 5.4 on a good day.
So I ask you folks...is it a size issue or what’s in her head? Or is she picking up on my “concerns” even though I’ve been quiet?
When I’ve dated and feel like the shit? I act like it. And that’s not a penis thing that’s a headspace thing. I think I haven’t been in the right headspace for years.