I wasn't sure where to post this pleae move if necessary but here goes. So I've posted before about the size of my penis (or rather lack of it) and got a bunch of reply basically suggesting size doesn't matter its how you use it. The issue with me is my mental state towards it and what I want to ask is when you know you have a small penis despite your abity to use (I make my partner cum 99% of the time we have sex) I still have it, I struggle to look at myself downstairs without getting negative thoughts and turning myself off. I've had women comment on my size in the past (about small which sticks in my head) and I can't just "not listen" it's like a reoccurring thought I just can't shake. My current partner just says "it's fine size doesn't matter you do a good job which does make me feel a bit better but as I said before I know and she's said she'd prefer bigger but we wouldn't split up over it. The issue here isnt how to use it but the question is how can I cope or help myself feel better about my lack of size and stop ruining my own sex life by turning myself off everytime I either look at it or think about it. Please I do beg don't bomard me with negative comments as what I need is a way to lift myself up about it not make it worse.