Penis size and partners who've had previous partners with larger penises.

[eogtr21]

In most cases I've found that the average penis size can be very desirable to women. I'm a little above average, around 6.75-7 x 5, I'm pretty comfortable about the size of my own personal endowments for the most part, and my current girlfriend, who's had previous experience with a guy with a larger penis has told me that the sex with me has been the best she's ever had because of the passion and emotion behind it. We recently broke up for a period of time (a month) and she went back with the guy with the larger penis only to find that she didn't have feelings for him, and when i started talking to her again she almost immediately broke things off with him to be with me. she admitted that she did have sex with him again (only around 3-4 times) and she hated that it wasn't me and she hated his penis size cause it hurt her. during this same month i dated another girl who i had sex with as well so it's not that I'm jealous of her being with another guy as much (though that may be part of it). The thing that has been getting me jealous is his penis size. My main problem is that I can't seem to stop thinking that if she went back with the guy with the larger penis after we had dated that she missed the large penis, not him, just the penis. Though she tells me she loves sex with me so much more (and i think her squirting orgasms may prove this cause she claims to not have had any orgasms at all during the time with him), I'm still really bothered by this. I've recently started jelqing because of personal reasons and also because i've been feeling inadequate in comparison to what she's described as "maybe a couple inches larger".

I know this is a ridiculous assessment of the situation and probably has no basis on anything but jealousy, but I was curious if anyone has had or has a similar experience, or maybe just some advice.

 

[roger_dodger]

My previous girlfriend told me that all in all I was the smallest guy she'd ever been with. But she also told me I was her favorite to have sex with. I'm not tiny but I'm definitely not large. 6.5 x 4.5 . Anyway, if shes having squirting orgasms I would think you are probably more than adequate. Stop worrying about it and go to town.

 

[unabear09]

In most cases I've found that the average penis size can be very desirable to women. I'm a little above average, around 6.75-7 x 5, I'm pretty comfortable about the size of my own personal endowments for the most part, and my current girlfriend, who's had previous experience with a guy with a larger penis has told me that the sex with me has been the best she's ever had because of the passion and emotion behind it. We recently broke up for a period of time (a month) and she went back with the guy with the larger penis only to find that she didn't have feelings for him, and when i started talking to her again she almost immediately broke things off with him to be with me. she admitted that she did have sex with him again (only around 3-4 times) and she hated that it wasn't me and she hated his penis size cause it hurt her. during this same month i dated another girl who i had sex with as well so it's not that I'm jealous of her being with another guy as much (though that may be part of it). The thing that has been getting me jealous is his penis size. My main problem is that I can't seem to stop thinking that if she went back with the guy with the larger penis after we had dated that she missed the large penis, not him, just the penis. Though she tells me she loves sex with me so much more (and i think her squirting orgasms may prove this cause she claims to not have had any orgasms at all during the time with him), I'm still really bothered by this. I've recently started jelqing because of personal reasons and also because i've been feeling inadequate in comparison to what she's described as "maybe a couple inches larger".

I know this is a ridiculous assessment of the situation and probably has no basis on anything but jealousy, but I was curious if anyone has had or has a similar experience, or maybe just some advice.

lucky sumbitch.....#1 you're getting laid.....#2 you got a squirter.....i'm so jealous dude

 

[eogtr21]

Haha, thanks. Yeah the squirting still seems to take me by surprise sometimes. Guess she's having a good time if I'm doin' that to her huh?

 

[roger_dodger]

Haha, thanks. Yeah the squirting still seems to take me by surprise sometimes. Guess she's having a good time if I'm doin' that to her huh?

Definitely

 

[eogtr21]

Still wouldn't mind a sightly larger member. Just sayin'. Haha.

 

[Mzhammer]

To set the record straight, the medical average is 5.1-5.7 and is based on the only surveys administered in person(as opposed to over the internet) by medical professionals.

 

[eogtr21]

To set the record straight, the medical average is 5.1-5.7 and is based on the only surveys administered in person(as opposed to over the internet) by medical professionals.

Girth or length? would still pass that mark on a good day. haha. i'm stickin' by the slightly over average remark.

 

[Mzhammer]

thats the length. Girth i'd have to check again. but you are well within average. Don't worry

 

[Principessa]

Haha, thanks. Yeah the squirting still seems to take me by surprise sometimes. Guess she's having a good time if I'm doin' that to her huh?

Most definetely and so long as she is having a good time you shouldnt worry. I know that's way easier said, than done but from what you describe she has NO reason to leave you for him or anyone else. What will get old really fast, is you needing constant re-assurance that you're okay. That can drive a woman away PDQ.

 

[B_andyo]

correct.

 

[wowBig]

I ususally try to figure that stuff out before I date a girl.
one girl I wanted to date had a guy with a huge member.

I was pretty bummed cause I know mine isn't really big 6 in length and no clue in girth. so I decided just to stop talking to her sadly.

I'm ordering the jes extender :|

 

[Principessa]

I usually try to figure that stuff out before I date a girl.

One girl I wanted to date had a guy with a huge member.

I was pretty bummed cause I know mine isn't really big 6 in length and no clue in girth. so I decided just to stop talking to her sadly.

Sorry, but that's about the stupidest thing I've ever heard. Just because her last guy had a big dick doesn't mean he knew what to do with it. Clearly he wasn't right for her because they are no longer together. Who is to say you aren't her Mr. Perfect.

I'm ordering the jes extender :|

 

[eogtr21]

Sorry, but that's about the stupidest thing I've ever heard. Just because her last guy had a big dick doesn't mean he knew what to do with it. Clearly he wasn't right for her because they are no longer together. Who is to say you aren't her Mr. Perfect.[/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT]

yeah definitely have a point there. I think stopping seeing or talking to someone based on someone else's penis size is a little much. Think it's no reason to cut of communication with this girl. I may be insecure at times about my penis size, but which guys isn't, especially when you know there are guys out there with larger penises than most of the average population. But I do think there's much more to this than penis size. If you really liked the girl I really hope that there were other more serious reasons that you stopped talking to her than that.
My entire rant was based on the fact that i really like this girl that i'm with now, and i am determined to move past the fact that she has had someone bigger. It doesn't mean I like her any less at all. just means i feel dumb - and maybe a little jealous - for having this be a concern.

 

[wowBig]

Actually I kinda....found out she was a slut

 

[B_Demention]

I usually try to figure that stuff out before I date a girl. Sorry, but that's about the stupidest thing I've ever heard. Just because her last guy had a big dick doesn't mean he knew what to do with it. Clearly he wasn't right for her because they are no longer together. Who is to say you aren't her Mr. Perfect.

I'm ordering the jes extender :|

We men are egomaniacs though - we want to be both the biggest and the best. It's strange how you can tell us we're perfect for you and oftentimes it still isn't enough. It's like telling your girlfriend she's overweight but that you like her the way she is - even if it is a compliment, the sensitive issue overrides it, so it comes out backhanded nonetheless.

Here's the thing though - believe her when she says you're the right size for her, even if he was larger. I've seen time and time again that if women have to choose a perfect size, nine times out of ten it's between 7 and 8 inches. Why? Because she can go nuts on a dick like that, one that's above average and satisfying, but without ever hurting herself. More than a pussyful is a waste anyway.

 

[Whopper-lee]

Well...to share my experience...my ex-wife is re-married...but stills calls upon me to dick her down whenever her new husband is out of town
It's probably poor judgement on my part to do this...but she has said he aint pleasing her like I can...and my dick was much bigger then his...which I thought was a bit cold-blooded to say...but what is ...is what is!

 

[eogtr21]

We men are egomaniacs though - we want to be both the biggest and the best. It's strange how you can tell us we're perfect for you and oftentimes it still isn't enough. It's like telling your girlfriend she's overweight but that you like her the way she is - even if it is a compliment, the sensitive issue overrides it, so it comes out backhanded nonetheless.

Here's the thing though - believe her when she says you're the right size for her, even if he was larger. I've seen time and time again that if women have to choose a perfect size, nine times out of ten it's between 7 and 8 inches. Why? Because she can go nuts on a dick like that, one that's above average and satisfying, but without ever hurting herself. More than a pussyful is a waste anyway.

1. First off, yes i agree about the whole overweight thing. i would say that most men are really stubborn and most won't take a hint, let alone a smack in the face from someone saying "you're perfect". We like to feed our own egos. But the guy's mentality is that having more to your penis will provide more pleasure onto the pleasure you're already giving her. Kinda funny though, i hear really hung guys are lousy in bed cause they are too overly - forgive my pun - cocky.

2. Yeah i agree, i mean I'm not by any means small, and I'm confident about myself and what i am able to do to her. my problem is that i seem to compare myself to other guys too much when it comes to relationships simply because they had to find some aspect, of which i may not have, attractive. Whether that aspect be a larger penis, or something about his personality. Granted through it all i still got the girl which means that i am doing something right.

Thanks for the thoughts Slant!

 

[eogtr21]

Well...to share my experience...my ex-wife is re-married...but stills calls upon me to dick her down whenever her new husband is out of town
It's probably poor judgement on my part to do this...but she has said he aint pleasing her like I can...and my dick was much bigger then his...which I thought was a bit cold-blooded to say...but what is ...is what is!

What the hell? Your ex-wife is cheating on her current husband with you (her ex-husband)? Cause that's functional living (please to note the sarcasm in that last statement).