I am in a long distance relationship with someone I love on every level. We talked a lot before we met and we click so well. We met in person a week ago. He hs a 9" dick plus it is thick. When he enters all the way it kills me unless I am on top controlling it. I learned to manage it the first three days, so on the last day before I had to come home, I let him pound me hard. Three days later, I am still in significant pain. My glands are still swollen down there and I even had fever. I feel like I don't know if I can handle a dick this big. I like the 6-7" that fills me up and I can do anything and everything with!!! But I really love this guy...just afraid of the pain. He says I just need time to get used to it. Will it get better? Women who have dealt with this, please help me!!!