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Hey Kat do you know if your husband was always like that or did he get rock hard when he was younger? I've heard that some big guys don't get rock hard and I always figured I was lucky because I do but I'm hoping it doesn't wear off when I get older.

The hardness of his penis really hasn't changed that much over the years(we first started having sex when he was 29 and he is 52 now). He has told me that his erections have always been that way. And "erection" is kind of misleading in his case since his penis hangs down when it is at it's hardest!

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The hardness of his penis really hasn't changed that much over the years(we first started having sex when he was 29 and he is 52 now). He has told me that his erections have always been that way. And "erection" is kind of misleading in his case since his penis hangs down when it is at it's hardest!

kat

Does that affect your enjoyment of sex? Just wondering because I figure harder is better?
 

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I find some huge cock are kind of soft around the outside and don't stand up straight. The guy I am dating now is only like 6 inches tops, but he's so hard I can hang my shoes from him and I love it...... any thoughts?

Yea..embrassing that many guys hate to talk about.
I'm in that number of guys whose penis dosn't stand straight...it simply hangs down my thigh.
I generally have to hold it up in postion for penertation and thrusting
The problem is that it takes more blood flow into the penis.
The larger the penis, the more blood it takes.
It's one of the major drawbacks of having a large penis.
Sorry about that:redface:
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Does that affect your enjoyment of sex? Just wondering because I figure harder is better?

Not at all. My comparison is only to dildos which are about his size (but harder). The dildos are more intense but that is less to do with the hardness than the texture of the dildos. My husbands penis is heavily veined but I don't notice them compared to the "veins" that are on the dildos. While we use dildos all the time (I tend to wear my husband out), nothing compares to my husbands penis.

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Yeah that's probably it. Me I'm about 8X6 and I don't have a problem with getting hard. I'm guessing some smaller guys maybe get hard faster ? Because I actually timed myself and when I get really turned on it takes me almost a minute to get totally hard. But I definitely get rock hard so that my cock can stand up on its own. You can check my pics out and see for yourself. And once I'm hard I don't lose it quick, I can stay there awhile. So it probably does have to do with age and health and such.

Your timing the length of time your dick takes to harden reminds me of a cock I know.

I've posted this before, but not in something like 'years', so I'll post again and see if I get feedback:

A 5-6 year friend with 8.25 to 8.5 length and a full 6.5 girth hardens in sections. The 1/3 at the base and the end 1/3 including his head get hard before the middle 1/3. It takes a few minutes for the total dick to get erected. He has said about another 5 minutes, but I've never timed it. When he's hard it's rigid and stands alone, also, after sex it stays hard as long as any I've experienced. It's just strange feeling the softness in the center while both ends are like a rock.

Have any of you seen or even heard of anything like this before? Surely he's not the only one in the world with this 'condition'!
 

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Weird, man. I guess mine gets hard in sections but not like that. My base gets hard right away and then the hardness sort of moves up toward the head. W/i a minute usually I'm totally hard and it can stand up on its own. One weird thing is my whole cock gets real hard but the base actually gets so hard I can lie on my back and my cock doesn't fall over, which is weird because the base is actually a tiny bit thinner than the middle part so you'd think it would fall over.

Your timing the length of time your dick takes to harden reminds me of a cock I know.

I've posted this before, but not in something like 'years', so I'll post again and see if I get feedback:

A 5-6 year friend with 8.25 to 8.5 length and a full 6.5 girth hardens in sections. The 1/3 at the base and the end 1/3 including his head get hard before the middle 1/3. It takes a few minutes for the total dick to get erected. He has said about another 5 minutes, but I've never timed it. When he's hard it's rigid and stands alone, also, after sex it stays hard as long as any I've experienced. It's just strange feeling the softness in the center while both ends are like a rock.

Have any of you seen or even heard of anything like this before? Surely he's not the only one in the world with this 'condition'!
 

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As far as ive seen erection firmness has nothing to do with size, unless we are talking extreme size. It seems to be due to health, blood flow, how much he is stimulated and any ifluences (eg - drugs or alcohol) also age.

And there is no denying the harder the better :biggrin1:
 

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As far as ive seen erection firmness has nothing to do with size, unless we are talking extreme size. It seems to be due to health, blood flow, how much he is stimulated and any ifluences (eg - drugs or alcohol) also age.

And there is no denying the harder the better :biggrin1:
Yes Lee you are right. All the things you talked about all play a part in this. When we talk of penis strength i was into hanging for a while some years ago. I worked my way up to 10lbs. It felt great. I still have a cock ring i wear once and a while with about 3lbs on it. Also the restoring i have done has given me better erections. I take about 30 different vitamins a day. This helps too.:cool:
 

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I don't have the biggest penis at 6.5" long x 6.25" girth and at 58 I am overweight and I do not have a very healthy diet (on the other hand I don't smoke or drink) and I still have rock hard erections.
 

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yeah, but I now think I'd rather have a really hard one. I love playing with and looking at a huge cock, but I'd rather have a really hard one fuck me even if its "small"

Sweet!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! great to hear!!!:smile: :smile: :smile:
 

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My shaft is always rock hard when fully erect and I point straight up. Often during sex though I will go through varying degrees of hardness depending.
7"x5" here
 

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I find it has more to do with state of arousal than anything(For me of course)

Even in my prime(university) when I played multiple sports, gym, eat VERY strick diet etc I didn't often get Steel hard. I did occasionally and still do but I've been told by previous GF's that their more "Normal" sized partners had been somewhat harder. *Shrugs* I have a mind to try viagra and a cockring sometime just to see how hard it can get lol.

*Cheers*
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Cockrings are great - get one! You can get a variety of types and size - my favourites are the ones that have a little dongle (or whatever) to hit the clit as you fuck - but my man loves wearing cock rings for his own pleasure too. He says they stop him coming to soon, make him harder and heighten pleasure
 

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I find it has more to do with state of arousal than anything(For me of course)

Even in my prime(university) when I played multiple sports, gym, eat VERY strick diet etc I didn't often get Steel hard. I did occasionally and still do but I've been told by previous GF's that their more "Normal" sized partners had been somewhat harder. *Shrugs* I have a mind to try viagra and a cockring sometime just to see how hard it can get lol.

*Cheers*
Teflon

Dude you seem to be doing way more than alright size wise. Why take steel rod away from us regular guys too.:biggrin1:

Or consider that viagra might not be good for you health if you don't really need it. <seriously>
 

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Dude you seem to be doing way more than alright size wise. Why take steel rod away from us regular guys too.:biggrin1:

Or consider that viagra might not be good for you health if you don't really need it. <seriously>

Ohh haha, About the Viagra I'm actually just teasing :) I know it might be bad for ones health if they have no need for it :smile: The cockring however, I hear nothing but good reviews on haha.

*Waves*
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We tried a 'other brand' Viagra recently (no need, just for a laugh) - it had no effect whatsoever - good or bad! Ho-hum...

BOOO! That's no good ;) Did it at least taste good? :wink: or was it a Complete waste of money heh.

I think most of them are bogus unfortunately. I prefer holistic midicines anyhow. Lot's of stuff out there for increased bloodflow/circ :)

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