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How can you tell if erection problems is a sign of mental or physical? I have moments when I get hard and stay hard and other times I get a half assed erection. Not fully hard, can stomach issues cause erection problems?
 

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First off, how old are you? For men, once I hit my early 50's, what you describe happens occasionally. I read that eating bananas helps, and tried it. it does. I've been eating one a day, or more since. I did a Yahoo search using "Bananas and men's sexual health", got all kinds of hits.

Also my daily vitamin now, is from GNC, you can order it online. It's called Mega Men Prostate and Virility, and it seems to help as well. S,ells bad, makes your pee BRIGHT yellow, your poo gets a weird odor (not that it ain't weird already), but it seems to help. Has all the usual stuff a daily vit needs, plus some extra stuff to wake up the sleeping giant.

But definitely try eating bananas every day, especially about 1.5 to 2 hours before you want to play with it. Refrigerate them, they last longer.

Heck, when I was younger mine did the same thing once in a long while, especially if I had been jacking it every day, multiple times a day. Guess it just needed a rest.

Exercise, STOP DRINKING SODA POP AND ENERGY DRINKS. Lots of water is really a good thing.
 
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Thanks, I have been doing the banana thing (and there are some bananas I like to do on here) yuck, yuck. And I take vitamins also, and yes I in my early 50's thank God people still mistake me for late 30's or 40. So I am grateful for that but I need my bingo to work, me one horny mother fucker.
 

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Are you able to get erect easily in some situations but not in others? Do you experience good morning erections?
 

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Thanks, I have been doing the banana thing (and there are some bananas I like to do on here) yuck, yuck. And I take vitamins also, and yes I in my early 50's thank God people still mistake me for late 30's or 40. So I am grateful for that but I need my bingo to work, me one horny mother fucker.

Fortunately, I have a regular who cums around once a week or so, with a nice banana. All he wants is for me to eat his banana, hands off mine. He will let me spill a load on his right before he is ready to unload, making it even more tasty.

I am 52, and for me anyhow, I seem to go through up and down periods throughout the year. Sometimes, like two Sundays ago, I can get a really rock hard woodie, and shoot a big load, three times in one day. To do so usually requires me to be on top of a nice dildo though. That does seem to inspire my cock to new heights. My Newest Fleshlight has a cup on the end, where you can see and measure the amount you shot. And do other things with afterwards as well. :biggrin1:

Having the measuring cup seems to inspire me to aim for more, as I can visibly see how much I put out. And can thus aim to fill it up a bit more the next time. :smile:

Go my favorite dildo and Fleshlight warming up in a sink full of hot water now, along with some really good lube. Know what that means?:wink:

Going to be buying one of these soonest.:eek:
Veiny Victor Ejaculating Cock

And they even have some lube that smells like cum. Smell is one thing that will perk the one-eyed wonder worm up.
8.5oz Jizz Cum-Scented Lube
 

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The problems accelerate when anxieties come into play. When one starts associating the prospect of a sexual encounter with dread due to fears of "failure to perform" instead of excitement, negative associations reinforce themselves and a vicious cycle is created.

Whatever you do, it's important that you do your best not to get obsessed in this manner and to make the effort to be as objective as possible about your penis' condition. It may not be an easy thing to do, but the alternatives are unacceptable.
 

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Me as well ups and downs (no pun intended) but yea one day I popped off 3 times rock hard and today unless I am playing with it goes down without constant attention. I take tons of supplements (which make my loads REALLY BIG.) Not sure they are doing much for hardness.
 

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So it's basically an age thing... Well that fucking sucks!

That's not always the case. A sedentary lifestyle, poor health practices, and stress can contribute as time goes by; but one can stay healthy and sexually fit with enough foresight.
 

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There is always Viagra, Cialis, etc. I do not want to go there yet, they all have side affects. A friend told me to buy them, but chop the pills down into smaller segments. Like quarters. You still get the desired affect without the side affects. Just do not know where one can buy these without a prescription. They're kind of pricey anyways.

Well my toys are warmed up. Gonna go do a quick inside rinse, then have me some fun time, before I head out to work.
 

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That's not always the case. A sedentary lifestyle, poor health practices, and stress can contribute as time goes by; but one can stay healthy and sexually fit with enough foresight.

My regular bud is 59. He has no problem popping a boner when he cums over to visit me. By the same token, he says he does not masturbate daily either. last time he was here, he had not released in a week. He filled me up big time.

As for me, if I stay off mine for a week, I'll definitely notice a BIG difference. It just drives me stir crazy to try and go a week hands off.:biggrin1:
 

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My regular bud is 59. He has no problem popping a boner when he cums over to visit me. By the same token, he says he does not masturbate daily either. last time he was here, he had not released in a week. He filled me up big time.

As for me, if I stay off mine for a week, I'll definitely notice a BIG difference. It just drives me stir crazy to try and go a week hands off.:biggrin1:

Restricting ejaculations to live sexual activity and training only will go a long way towards enforcing good libido. MANY men develop troubles with erectile stamina from negative masturbation habits, and if porn is included in that mix the issues are compounded.
 

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Hmmmm... I wonder if vanilla sex doesn't do it for me any more. Just watched some vids from the rough deep throat post and was throbbing hard.
 

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Restricting ejaculations to live sexual activity and training only will go a long way towards enforcing good libido. MANY men develop troubles with erectile stamina from negative masturbation habits, and if porn is included in that mix the issues are compounded.

I agree about the porn, I try and stay away from it. Also agree that hands off is a good thing. But many doctors will say that an ejaculation once a day is good for you, helps prevent prostate troubles later. So I'm on the fence on that one. When I take a piss, the water foams up horribly. That is a sign I am not eliminating semen fast enough, cause foamy piss is semen in your urine.

I work out, hard, every day. This helps keep your testosterone levels up, which helps on the hard-on front, and keeps your libido high. My problem when it comes to being with others sexually, is not from too much hand play, but performance expectations. Have a terrible problem with this, and the only thing that helps is knowing the person will be back for more. If I think it is going to be a one off, it will usually not work out well for me. Male or female, it's the same. It's all in my head.

I wake up with wood quite a bit. I can get hard with no problem and shoot a nice load every day. But someone comes through the door, it's probably going to give me fits and starts. I am batting 50% right now. Like to get it higher.

My regular bud comes around too late in the evening for me. My best time of day is right about now. Never a problem this time of day. The later it gets, the harder it is to get hard. My blood pressure is perfect this time of day. It gets higher as the day wears on, high blood pressure does not help. mine does not get unhealthy high, just high normal. Being tired from work ,the day in general as the day wears on, etc.

For me anyhow, wearing one of those padded cock rings I posted earlier helps maintain once I get hard. They will not get you hard, but will help it get harder and firmer once there. I've never worn one before, and am enjoying them a lot. The OP should consider trying them. IMHO
 

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Hmmmm... I wonder if vanilla sex doesn't do it for me any more. Just watched some vids from the rough deep throat post and was throbbing hard.

I have not done that in a long time. My wife and I separated about 1.25 years ago. The last two years we were together, she had "no interest" in sex at all. But when I do watch pron (rare), it is just plain old sex. Do not like rough stuff, do not care for anal. Just plain old bj and fuck works for me. If you watch porn too much, you will definitely get to where normal porn is not enough. Cut back on how much you watch, and just try and have fun on your desire to have fun by itself. This is still my main daily thing, I try and avoid porn.
 

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I agree about the porn, I try and stay away from it. Also agree that hands off is a good thing. But many doctors will say that an ejaculation once a day is good for you, helps prevent prostate troubles later. So I'm on the fence on that one. When I take a piss, the water foams up horribly. That is a sign I am not eliminating semen fast enough, cause foamy piss is semen in your urine.

I work out, hard, every day. This helps keep your testosterone levels up, which helps on the hard-on front, and keeps your libido high. My problem when it comes to being with others sexually, is not from too much hand play, but performance expectations. Have a terrible problem with this, and the only thing that helps is knowing the person will be back for more. If I think it is going to be a one off, it will usually not work out well for me. Male or female, it's the same. It's all in my head.

I wake up with wood quite a bit. I can get hard with no problem and shoot a nice load every day. But someone comes through the door, it's probably going to give me fits and starts. I am batting 50% right now. Like to get it higher.

My regular bud comes around too late in the evening for me. My best time of day is right about now. Never a problem this time of day. The later it gets, the harder it is to get hard. My blood pressure is perfect this time of day. It gets higher as the day wears on, high blood pressure does not help. mine does not get unhealthy high, just high normal. Being tired from work ,the day in general as the day wears on, etc.

For me anyhow, wearing one of those padded cock rings I posted earlier helps maintain once I get hard. They will not get you hard, but will help it get harder and firmer once there. I've never worn one before, and am enjoying them a lot. The OP should consider trying them. IMHO

It's agreed that ejaculation is healthy, and it should be done at "optimum" levels- no more, and no less. The conditioning effect of masturbation should also be considered. The hands can elicit a very different stimulus than a body orifice of choice, and if one masturbates with a tight grip, too quickly, etc. all of these factors will condition the penis in a way where ejaculating via other forms of sexual stimulus may be difficult.
 

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I have not done that in a long time. My wife and I separated about 1.25 years ago. The last two years we were together, she had "no interest" in sex at all. But when I do watch pron (rare), it is just plain old sex. Do not like rough stuff, do not care for anal. Just plain old bj and fuck works for me. If you watch porn too much, you will definitely get to where normal porn is not enough. Cut back on how much you watch, and just try and have fun on your desire to have fun by itself. This is still my main daily thing, I try and avoid porn.

That porn advice is right on the money. You might be interested in the following thread's link: http://www.lpsg.com/359678-the-detraining-effect-understanding-and.html
 

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Thanks for the link. I'll check it out later. Have to head off for work soon.

As for masturbation, I do not use a tight grip. Do not like a death grip, find it does not get me where I want to be. Also never, usually anyway, in a hurry to get to the finish line. Like to get hard, and sustain it for awhile, enjoy it while I got it.

Most days, I'll be reclining on my couch reading, doing a cross word or sudoku puzzle, wearing a pair of real shorts, where I can reach in through the leg and fondle the boys. Always gets me hard, do not always masturbate just because of it. But once a day at least, I want to get hard, it's good for things, even if you do not follow through and ejaculate.

This is an interesting thread. For a long while, I was having some real difficulties with the plumbing down below. Here lately, no problemo. Changed my diet, eating more fruits and vegetables, drinking lots more water. Upping the ante in my workouts. I was doing sit ups with a 40 pound dumbell, now I am using a 50. Doing pull ups with 20 pounds of weight on my ankles. Using push up bars that are higher than my old ones. Etc. It all seems to be adding up to things down below are happier than they've been in quite awhile.
 

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Porn may help but I have not found that it helps with this problem, so kinda lay off the porn when possible and go to gym and work out before you know you're going to be active. Exercise is a must.

My doctor said it is good to ejaculate every day and it will help your prostate to stay healthy also. And take supplements/vitamins will also help. It has helped me after I reached 50, now 10 years later I still take vitamins and jerk once (well at least) a day. More than once is just pure fun but try to edge along that will bring on longer periods of hardness.

Although I have health problems diabetes, and heart problems and it takes a toll on maintaining a hard cock all the time with all the meds that I have to take.

Eating the right foods helps also... lay off the greasy foods... fried foods seam to cause problems for me maintaining a healthy erection. More veggies helps ... fresh ones that is.

There is one other thing that effects me and that is MSG (monosodium glutamate) try to stay away from it if any ways possible.

Hope some of this helps you.