I NEVER saw my father's, uncles' or any family members' penises growing up and so never had any frame of reference for my own other than friends around my same age. Now I know my Dad isn't really hung but, up until a certain state of growth, knowing what he had would've made me feel more normal - even in the way of pubes. I have an older friend who's always been very open with his son about both of their penises and now his son has turned into a really nice well-adjusted lad who gets on well with girls and feels really secure about his penis. What do you people think? Should families, particularly fathers be more proactive in making sure their sons are OK with their penises? I think it should become a part of the "birds and the bees" talk. Growing up, me and my friends were obsessed with size but shyness and bragging made things worse - my Dad could've reassured me alot about that.