I getting a little annoyed that family members are asking why I do not have a girlfriend. Because Right now I am not interested in getting one or having one. THey have been hounding me on and off for the last few years. They started doing they 5-6 years ago.
23 now.
Without proper communications channels set up, family member can quite often come off as, for lack of a better phrase, "fucking assholes". First and foremost you should recognize that they are putting so much continual effort into it because they love you.
Next, I would attempt to work through any unresolved feelings/thoughts that may prevent you from solving the issue from a direct confrontation. If you don't know why you angry with them or embarrassed about something, the issue will have a higher chance of not resolving. It can be a long and difficult process. For example, I'm upset with my sister for not respecting me as an individual. That statement packs a real punch!
After this I would attempt to confront them about it in a civil manner. With bad channels of communication, the love of a mother could come off as hateful. If the ones who loves you do not know how to converse with you about your life so as to be to YOUR benefit and NOT theirs, than that is definitely a problem. They could have issues of their own clouding their judgement. If you confront with with your issues worked out in a civil manner, this could help to expose their issues. This is a situation where knowledge is power; being aware of your families issues as well as your own is a huge advantage. This is the first step in solving and working past these issues. If nothing else, it gives a new and different venue for conversation.
Above all, I would take care to remember a romantic relationship does not cause one to go from unhappy to happy. This is hard to keep in mind because society is convinced of it as a whole. It is important to be balanced and content/happy with oneself as an individual. Healthy relationships are fruit of such a self image. We enter this world alone, and leave it alone. If we are not content or happy with who we are as individuals, then depression will constantly chase you throughout your life.
In Short, a romantic relationship makes you happIER, not happy. It is the cherry on top of the cake, not the cake itself. As we are in our young twenties, we are still batter, not yet cake. A healthy, long-term, romantic relationship is not going to be common during this time in most peoples' lives (imo).
I am only trying to help, and I sincerely hope it does. If you have any other questions or thoughts, just shoot me a message!