people who don't have sex.
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Im right beside ya. ive had sex three times in the past 3.5 years and its been 2 years since the last time..
- hung,
I trust that by not having sex you are talking about insertive activity.
I was a virgin when I married at age 25. That does not mean that I did not self pleasure my self very often prior to that marriage.
Admittedly, insertive sexual encounters are very much fun, I can also report that I still self pleasure myself very often.
Life is what you make of it and I still enjoy sexual pleasure as well as self pleasuring my self. I hope that is also your situation.
Warm regards,
I was a virgin when I married at age 25. That does not mean that I did not self pleasure my self very often prior to that marriage.
Admittedly, insertive sexual encounters are very much fun, I can also report that I still self pleasure myself very often.
Life is what you make of it and I still enjoy sexual pleasure as well as self pleasuring my self. I hope that is also your situation.
Warm regards,
i laughed :biggrin1:
nope, i mean that i've not had sex, snuggled, groped, snogged, held hands or even hugged a guy for years.
i do seem to spend a lot of money on batteries though...
I'm glad. :smile:
Few people can make batteries sexy ... but you did.:wink:
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I am so terrible at being single, when I was single I had one helluva sex drive and toys didn't cut the mustard. I need that warm body, adoration, kissing, breathing. In a relationship, it seems I take it for granted and don't require as much sex as I do when single. I don't have that desperate need for companionship. Kind of sucks.
i'm not a huggy person. it's not cold to respect that.
awww! funny how not being able to have something often makes you want it more.
Fair 'nuf. That I can understand.
For me, laying around cuddling, hugging, kissing... When I'm passionately involved with someone and I love and am attracted to them, doing these things just fires up my sex drive for them. Then one thing leads to another. I can handle being turned down once in awhile in this case, but when I get refused for 1-2 weeks straight, it causes lots of issues for me. Unless there's a medical reason.
I too have been celibate for many years...
I am 25 and a half (to the day) and have not had sex in 7.5 years (last time was on my 18th BDay)
If I am completely honest, I'm just not a sexual person. I masturbate 3 times a week, but only because I have some medical training, and know that if a man doesn't ejaculate a minimum of 3 times a week, it can increase the chances of certain genital problems.
And only rarely do I feel what most people would call an 'orgasm' when I do.
I also believe that I am what I call 'Sex Blind'. Other people seem to be able to see others as sexually attractive, but for some reason I can't. Often, I couldn't even tell you what gender someone was, even after say having had a long conversation with them. (Not to say that I can't distinguish between the genders, just that its not something that registers as relevant information, somehow)...
I am 25 and a half (to the day) and have not had sex in 7.5 years (last time was on my 18th BDay)
If I am completely honest, I'm just not a sexual person. I masturbate 3 times a week, but only because I have some medical training, and know that if a man doesn't ejaculate a minimum of 3 times a week, it can increase the chances of certain genital problems.
And only rarely do I feel what most people would call an 'orgasm' when I do.
I also believe that I am what I call 'Sex Blind'. Other people seem to be able to see others as sexually attractive, but for some reason I can't. Often, I couldn't even tell you what gender someone was, even after say having had a long conversation with them. (Not to say that I can't distinguish between the genders, just that its not something that registers as relevant information, somehow)...
I'd help you out with that if you lived closer :biggrin1: (i'm sure i'm not the first to say that too)
HA, that made me laugh... lol... I wasn't particularly talking about the Big C (I don't know if rate of masturbation has any effect on Prostate Cancer, personally)... Just that certain pipes are designed to be flushed, as it were...
I did a few years ago get myself tested to see if Aspergers was what was wrong with me Dolfette, and had it repeated a few years later, but both times the questionnaires came back negative.
I've always put it down to the way I was raised. Both of my parents were, as I was growing up, rather against the concept of Gender. I was raised to believe that you should treat people as equals, regardless of gender, and that is what I do.
So because of that, coupled with the fact that I am not 'looking for it', I tend to notice that someone has changed there hair style but not that they have boobies...
-LUM-
Btw, I am glad that you have changed your avatar... the Knife was a bit worrying...
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Well in Biology, A-Sexual being reproduce by mating with themselves and then 'splitting' to form two identical copies... (I.E. bacteria)
But when referring to humans, it usually means a man or woman who has none or little need for sexual stimuli without having experienced something that may have caused psyco-sexual damage (Sexual abuse, rape etc)
Hope that wasn't too much like a Biology lesson... lol
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