ShannonH
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Wow, I'm really surprised at how many people here are celibate or have gone without for so long. I really have to work at getting turned on in my relationship. Sometimes I wish he was asexual. Am I interpreting asexual incorrectly? Someone who doesn't want/need sex regularly?
If you're really horny when you're single, then it's not like you have a physiologically low sex-drive. Getting turned on should never be work -- it's just something you let happen.
My girlfriend actually sounds very similar to you. When I'm climbing-up-the-walls horny and constantly trying to have sex with her, she loses interest. When I act disinterested (and it's really just an act.. I want her all the time) she just boils over and absolutely needs to get laid. You could just ask if he can act a little more distant, and you may find yourself wanting it more the less you take it for granted.