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I go through waves vacillating between hypersexuality to complete abstinence. Though the latter never run for more than about a week, the former can extend for months before I burn out completely, then start over.

The breaks between periods of hypersexuality can run from months to years. Though I've had sex since then, my last period of hypersexuality was over two years ago. After that, I really needed a break.
 

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Wow, cant believe this is so common, I thought I was a freak. I havent had sex for almost a year. I would not mind a one night stand, but I am not obsessed about it like some people. If it happens it happens.
 

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I'm still a virgin, 19 years of it... lol makes it hard not to touch yourself!

The virginity issue is difficult; I was raised in a tremendously religious family where everything was a sin and for every drop of semen you lost a cup of blood....meaning that's what it too to make it.

I was an only child; bright but skinny and over-sexed...at least I thought that...since I was forever going to hell because i had nonstop hardons and because i was well-hung but skinny ...i just knew everybody in church knew i was forever being sinful.

Well...I got over all that: going into the behavioral sciences and ending up with a wonderful education.

I was also amazed to find in my studies, that in Orthodox Judaism, no one is considered gay unless they have had rectal sex ! So, while I knew I was genetically attracted to the same sex and that that was my primary affectional interest...well, it was interesting to find that in many religious circles, i was not even considered gay. (I mention that, because it was a politicized and religiously poorly educated practitioners of religion that had made me feel so humiliated about my genetic disposition.)

My hang-ups also spared me a lot of disease. I've never had any STD, certainly never aids or on the other side of the fence: had to marry someone or support a child as a result of unsafe sex.

Yes, i did jack off a lot....and lived in the confessional.

However, as friends and acquaintances ...many of whom called me vanilla or backward...were getting sick and dying of AIDS; I began to slowly become grateful.

Graciously i was spared any interest in butts, butt-holes, or French kissing, still the main causes for spread of herpes, syphilis, and hiv.

I was also graciously spared an interest in gambling or drugs.

I am finally at a point in my life where i am both happy and grateful to have had exactly the life that i have had.

I know that being different from your peer group is difficult...but i think that you will end up having 'the last laugh' and obtaining a really fine life which will give you many rewards....including good health...at least that is my good wish for you.

Bud
 

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I'm still a virgin, 19 years of it... lol makes it hard not to touch yourself!

I have found this website ( g0ys.org ) (that is a zero between g and y) and some of their material helpful, example:

"The official account:
1Sa 20:41 David arose out of a place toward the South, and fell on his face to the ground, and bowed himself three times: and they kissed one another, and wept one with another, until David exceeded.

"(What WE think a Spy actually saw):
1Sa 20:41 David arose sporting an erection, and immediately went down on Jonathan performing 3 acts of oral sex on him; - And they kissed one another, and wept one with another, until David had his orgasm.


"0ur end goal is to alert the mind of the reader with an understanding that sex is a glue that often bonds the deepest relationships & that the joy of sex is only at it's peak when love, empathy & good-will are present. Everything else rings hollow."
 

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I also believe that I am what I call 'Sex Blind'. Other people seem to be able to see others as sexually attractive, but for some reason I can't

Same here
might as well poke my eyes out since they are useless......

Rarely a hand full of times per year
 
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People who don't have sex...are the coolest people of all.
 

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Well I went three years without sex with other people at one stage of my post-adolescent life. It seemed necessary at the time, but wasn't good for me. Eventually I had to make a conscious effort to "re-gay" myself.
 

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Who says I was addressing you?



I'm an atheist too. Doesn't mean the definition is incorrect. A celibate person traditional abstains from all sexual release.


Dolfette's thread means dolfette's standards of politeness! :tongue:

Hi, cute man thousands of miles out of reach.
 

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People who don't have sex...are the coolest people of all.
Are you trying to say "frigid bitch" nicely?:tongue:

I think I was born with a very strong libido and honestly can't imagine abstaining for longer than 3 weeks, especially if there is no lack of opportunities.

Seems like a very harsh deprivation of one of life's great pleasures.