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nacard01: Well as I can speak from experience that "god's" humor can be seen from time to time. I myself belief that a majority of guys who could be handed a list of traits they would want for themselves would choose personality, intelligence, physique, cuteness, and more then likely penis size. I for one got the King's share I would say. I am one of those guys that if you were to walk by me on the sidewalk would either want to have sex with me or at least think about some aspect of me sexually. Even without knowing about my penis size.
Although I realize that a lot of guys think having a real big dick is cool or having a bigger one would be cool. There must be a point where you reach a limit of "coolness". Being realistic in my own case, what good does having a 13" dick grant me? I am bigger then other guys? Obviously.....but from a sexual standpoint as well as a social standpoint its nothing but a hinderence. Sure there are guys/girls out there who want to be with big guys. But what will a 13" dick give you that say a 10" dick won't? Realistically nothing, both are large sizes. Once you reach a certain length/width through your development or penis enlargement methods what is an extra inch when you are already 10" long? NOt much in my opinion. The ridicule that I have faced has been more geared towards others unacceptance of my size in what can be described as the "normal" sense. I know I have an extremely above average sized penis. It's something I have to deal with daily in what I wear, others perceptions, sex, etc etc. Things that most guys take for granted. The reason I say this the way I have is simply due to the fact that when a friend of mine says, "God I wish I was as big as you". I understand why they say it but realistically they have no idea. I have been told by dozens of people even on LPSG that I should be proud of what I have and appreciate the fact that I am huge. Well it isnt about proudness or realizing that I can show up most any guy. Its about enjoying what I have. Most guys/girls do not want to be with someone of my size and I really can't blame them.
Lets say for a moment that my attitude on the subject was completely different. That I showed up other guys and took extreme pride in my size. What does it change? I gain more envy of guys? I get more looks? More comments? This is my opinion of course but it doesn't "help" you any.
I have used my size in the past on a few occasions to get something I wanted but in those instances I was drunk. To speak on my own defense and by no means do I presume to speak for all of you who have large endowments but have you ever really thought of what it would be like to be 9" instead of 11"? or 7" instead of 9"? Sure you wouldn't be as "big" but you also would live your life just as others do minus some variables.
I guess what I am trying to say is. I realize that I am larger then probably 95% of the population. Oh boy, lucky me. The only thing being huge has granted me throughout my entire life has been a problem with clothing, ridicule from friends, difficulty doing everything other people do because I could hurt myself and sex related problems that hinder my choices and desires. Guys that want to be bigger....thats fine. Just think about what it is like for those of us who are so big that it affects our life.
I am sorry for ranting. I just read through some posts and felt like giving my feelings on the issue. Whether you disagree or agree with me, I do not know. I would never presumably speak for any of you, I was just merely trying to make you see some of the other perspectives available to someone who knows all to well what its like, namely me. =)
Nate
P.S.
My apologies for the length of the post. I just felt like typing a lot out. As always if you want to talk my chat accessabilities are listed. <waves>
Although I realize that a lot of guys think having a real big dick is cool or having a bigger one would be cool. There must be a point where you reach a limit of "coolness". Being realistic in my own case, what good does having a 13" dick grant me? I am bigger then other guys? Obviously.....but from a sexual standpoint as well as a social standpoint its nothing but a hinderence. Sure there are guys/girls out there who want to be with big guys. But what will a 13" dick give you that say a 10" dick won't? Realistically nothing, both are large sizes. Once you reach a certain length/width through your development or penis enlargement methods what is an extra inch when you are already 10" long? NOt much in my opinion. The ridicule that I have faced has been more geared towards others unacceptance of my size in what can be described as the "normal" sense. I know I have an extremely above average sized penis. It's something I have to deal with daily in what I wear, others perceptions, sex, etc etc. Things that most guys take for granted. The reason I say this the way I have is simply due to the fact that when a friend of mine says, "God I wish I was as big as you". I understand why they say it but realistically they have no idea. I have been told by dozens of people even on LPSG that I should be proud of what I have and appreciate the fact that I am huge. Well it isnt about proudness or realizing that I can show up most any guy. Its about enjoying what I have. Most guys/girls do not want to be with someone of my size and I really can't blame them.
Lets say for a moment that my attitude on the subject was completely different. That I showed up other guys and took extreme pride in my size. What does it change? I gain more envy of guys? I get more looks? More comments? This is my opinion of course but it doesn't "help" you any.
I have used my size in the past on a few occasions to get something I wanted but in those instances I was drunk. To speak on my own defense and by no means do I presume to speak for all of you who have large endowments but have you ever really thought of what it would be like to be 9" instead of 11"? or 7" instead of 9"? Sure you wouldn't be as "big" but you also would live your life just as others do minus some variables.
I guess what I am trying to say is. I realize that I am larger then probably 95% of the population. Oh boy, lucky me. The only thing being huge has granted me throughout my entire life has been a problem with clothing, ridicule from friends, difficulty doing everything other people do because I could hurt myself and sex related problems that hinder my choices and desires. Guys that want to be bigger....thats fine. Just think about what it is like for those of us who are so big that it affects our life.
I am sorry for ranting. I just read through some posts and felt like giving my feelings on the issue. Whether you disagree or agree with me, I do not know. I would never presumably speak for any of you, I was just merely trying to make you see some of the other perspectives available to someone who knows all to well what its like, namely me. =)
Nate
P.S.
My apologies for the length of the post. I just felt like typing a lot out. As always if you want to talk my chat accessabilities are listed. <waves>