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Hey all! I thought I would share some of my experience about my perception of being very hung and some recent discoveries. To start off, I have had a larger than normal size penis as long as I can remember. I have been teased about it when I had a local community center shower experience with a bunch of my friends and it carried on after others saw me in the sports locker room and showers. It became my reputation and it got to my head.

This led to me always trying to compare and be that alpha male which had led to insecurities. It’s funny how some of the most insecure about size guys are some of the biggest out there. It’s like the human condition of always wanting more and hard to accept yourself. I started comparing to Mandingo and bang bro’s Ramon which always made me think I really wasn’t that big because they seemed so much bigger on the internet. So whenever my girlfriend said how monstrous I was, I always told her “it’s because you haven’t seen the people on the internet”. The insecurity was crazy, even though I had what many people only dreamed of.

This made me really realize how the internet can really mess with your head. People can post certain angles etc. that make them seem so much bigger than they are. And this is a result of people not accepting what they have which most times they should be proud of as is because they are very hung.

So what I did recently to settle my insecurities was I got a tape measure with my wife and we got intimate. She got me rock hard and we measured. We even looked up the right way to measure which is bone pressed. I chose a tape measure instead of a ruler because I have an upward and slightly left curve so a tape measure gives a more accurate measure. I feel people who have a downward curve gives the illusion of being more massive than an upward curve in my opinion which is another perception of size I have come to notice over my life. Anyways, she held my penis while I roped the tape measure up the shaft and over the head. She goes “it says 9” directly over you pee hole”! I was ecstatic. Part of me was nervous prior that this so called “monster” as she calls it was going to show to be closer to 7-8” (which is obviously big but not 9-10” big).

Then later that night I measured me completely flaccid the same way. We have always joked that I was a crazy grower because I thought I was on the smaller side flaccid. Turns out it showed I was 6” flaccid. This can probably change with weather etc. but that surprised me. So we found out that I’m more of a shower than a grower and I actually am in the 9” club. It was an amazing day that gave me much more self-confidence and I can finally put those comparing insecurities in the rear view.

So in conclusion, due to comparing to people on the internet for a couple decades my perception of what I have has been completely off. Always thought I was a grower when in fact I am not and I am legitimately in the 9” club which is a true rarity. This goes to show how photo angles etc on the internet can totally warp your perception of penis size and what you personally have. Be grateful for what you have and appreciate those who have more but don’t let jealousy and envy ruin your life, it’s just not worth it!
 
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Hey all! I thought I would share some of my experience about my perception of being very hung and some recent discoveries. To start off, I have had a larger than normal size penis as long as I can remember. I have been teased about it when I had a local community center shower experience with a bunch of my friends and it carried on after others saw me in the sports locker room and showers. It became my reputation and it got to my head.

This led to me always trying to compare and be that alpha male which had led to insecurities. It’s funny how some of the most insecure about size guys are some of the biggest out there. It’s like the human condition of always wanting more and hard to accept yourself. I started comparing to Mandingo and bang bro’s Ramon which always made me think I really wasn’t that big because they seemed so much bigger on the internet. So whenever my girlfriend said how monstrous I was, I always told her “it’s because you haven’t seen the people on the internet”. The insecurity was crazy, even though I had what many people only dreamed of.

This made me really realize how the internet can really mess with your head. People can post certain angles etc. that make them seem so much bigger than they are. And this is a result of people not accepting what they have which most times they should be proud of as is because they are very hung.

So what I did recently to settle my insecurities was I got a tape measure with my wife and we got intimate. She got me rock hard and we measured. We even looked up the right way to measure which is bone pressed. I chose a tape measure instead of a ruler because I have an upward and slightly left curve so a tape measure gives a more accurate measure. I feel people who have a downward curve gives the illusion of being more massive than an upward curve in my opinion which is another perception of size I have come to notice over my life. Anyways, she held my penis while I roped the tape measure up the shaft and over the head. She goes “it says 9” directly over you pee hole”! I was ecstatic. Part of me was nervous prior that this so called “monster” as she calls it was going to show to be closer to 7-8” (which is obviously big but not 9-10” big).

Then later that night I measured me completely flaccid the same way. We have always joked that I was a crazy grower because I thought I was on the smaller side flaccid. Turns out it showed I was 6” flaccid. This can probably change with weather etc. but that surprised me. So we found out that I’m more of a shower than a grower and I actually am in the 9” club. It was an amazing day that gave me much more self-confidence and I can finally put those comparing insecurities in the rear view.

So in conclusion, due to comparing to people on the internet for a couple decades my perception of what I have has been completely off. Always thought I was a grower when in fact I am not and I am legitimately in the 9” club which is a true rarity. This goes to show how photo angles etc on the internet can totally warp your perception of penis size and what you personally have. Be grateful for what you have and appreciate those who have more but don’t let jealousy and envy ruin your life, it’s just not worth it!
Thank you for sharing this part of your journey. I think there might many men who’ve compared themselves to porn and drawn similar conclusions as you.
 

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Hey all! I thought I would share some of my experience about my perception of being very hung and some recent discoveries. To start off, I have had a larger than normal size penis as long as I can remember. I have been teased about it when I had a local community center shower experience with a bunch of my friends and it carried on after others saw me in the sports locker room and showers. It became my reputation and it got to my head.

This led to me always trying to compare and be that alpha male which had led to insecurities. It’s funny how some of the most insecure about size guys are some of the biggest out there. It’s like the human condition of always wanting more and hard to accept yourself. I started comparing to Mandingo and bang bro’s Ramon which always made me think I really wasn’t that big because they seemed so much bigger on the internet. So whenever my girlfriend said how monstrous I was, I always told her “it’s because you haven’t seen the people on the internet”. The insecurity was crazy, even though I had what many people only dreamed of.

This made me really realize how the internet can really mess with your head. People can post certain angles etc. that make them seem so much bigger than they are. And this is a result of people not accepting what they have which most times they should be proud of as is because they are very hung.

So what I did recently to settle my insecurities was I got a tape measure with my wife and we got intimate. She got me rock hard and we measured. We even looked up the right way to measure which is bone pressed. I chose a tape measure instead of a ruler because I have an upward and slightly left curve so a tape measure gives a more accurate measure. I feel people who have a downward curve gives the illusion of being more massive than an upward curve in my opinion which is another perception of size I have come to notice over my life. Anyways, she held my penis while I roped the tape measure up the shaft and over the head. She goes “it says 9” directly over you pee hole”! I was ecstatic. Part of me was nervous prior that this so called “monster” as she calls it was going to show to be closer to 7-8” (which is obviously big but not 9-10” big).

Then later that night I measured me completely flaccid the same way. We have always joked that I was a crazy grower because I thought I was on the smaller side flaccid. Turns out it showed I was 6” flaccid. This can probably change with weather etc. but that surprised me. So we found out that I’m more of a shower than a grower and I actually am in the 9” club. It was an amazing day that gave me much more self-confidence and I can finally put those comparing insecurities in the rear view.

So in conclusion, due to comparing to people on the internet for a couple decades my perception of what I have has been completely off. Always thought I was a grower when in fact I am not and I am legitimately in the 9” club which is a true rarity. This goes to show how photo angles etc on the internet can totally warp your perception of penis size and what you personally have. Be grateful for what you have and appreciate those who have more but don’t let jealousy and envy ruin your life, it’s just not worth it!
I’m only 6” and get a big depressed feeling whenever I think about my dick, i just feel like it’s so stupid that I will never know the feeling of having a big dick. I always instantly get soft when I’m in the middle of jerking off and I think about my length. It gets so bad sometimes, I get so obsessive with trying to get even one extra inch that I feel like I’m going crazy. I just hate how it never looks like they are feeling anything when I’m fucking someone, I get so depressed from it all idk what to do.
 

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I’m only 6” and get a big depressed feeling whenever I think about my dick, i just feel like it’s so stupid that I will never know the feeling of having a big dick. I always instantly get soft when I’m in the middle of jerking off and I think about my length. It gets so bad sometimes, I get so obsessive with trying to get even one extra inch that I feel like I’m going crazy. I just hate how it never looks like they are feeling anything when I’m fucking someone, I get so depressed from it all idk what to do.
I have actually been turned down by women before, because being in the 9" club is not always worth the hassle, apparently. My current partner will sometimes wave me away if she is still sore from our last time. I always feel a bit cheated when I read those surveys where women choose between hypothetical sizes of men for a partner, and they usually choose between 6"-7".
 

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I’m only 6” and get a big depressed feeling whenever I think about my dick, i just feel like it’s so stupid that I will never know the feeling of having a big dick. I always instantly get soft when I’m in the middle of jerking off and I think about my length. It gets so bad sometimes, I get so obsessive with trying to get even one extra inch that I feel like I’m going crazy. I just hate how it never looks like they are feeling anything when I’m fucking someone, I get so depressed from it all idk what to do.

I pretty much feel the same way. Its quite depressing. Then I come to a place like this to pour salt on the wound. It seems I really like to punish myself for not having what women really want.
 
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I pretty much feel the same way. Its quite depressing. Then I come to a place like this to pour salt on the wound. It seems I really like to punish myself for not having what women really want.
Looking at your pics your not small, actually much bigger than me so accept what you have and enjoy it
 

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Looking at your pics your not small, actually much bigger than me so accept what you have and enjoy it


I think small is a relative term but I Im sorry. I was having a real tough day and was on very little sleep. Sometimes I go over the deep end. I wish I could accept my size but its just really difficult for me especially considering the dramatic contrast when compared to most everyone else here. Sometimes I convince myself that they are the norm and mine is abnormal. I do still stand by my thoughts that most women would much prefer the average LPSG dick than what I could bring to the table (or bedroom).
 
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I think small is a relative term but I Im sorry. I was having a real tough day and was on very little sleep. Sometimes I go over the deep end. I wish I could accept my size but its just really difficult for me especially considering the dramatic contrast when compared to most everyone else here. Sometimes I convince myself that they are the norm and mine is abnormal. I do still stand by my thoughts that most women would much prefer the average LPSG dick than what I could bring to the table (or bedroom).
Strangely enough this site has helped me accept my size. I see mostly bigger dicks but there are many good looking guys with great bodies that have smaller dicks like mine and I see how hot they look. Yes I would like a bigger thicker dick both hard and soft. Am I embarrassed for anyone I know to see my soft dick, YES. When I sit down I virtually have nothing outside my body so feel that pain. I see you and most everyone else here with nice swinging soft dicks and feel bad but then I realize what I have and forget about it. Interesting thing happened this morning. I was fully inside my wife with all of my very hard 5 incher and she asked me to back out a bit as I was too far inside. Confirmation that my dick is big enough for her
 

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I used to wonder why an average guy like myself is doing on here, a website dedicated to large penis - a sexual one at that. I find it a treasure to see topics like this that are created where guys can be vulnerable and express themselves without fear of shaming. I'm not here for pony show. I'm here for the penis positivity.

One thing I notice with so many topics on here are the guys who wouldn't be caught dead with a smaller dick. It's about looking superior and better than everyone else. But topics like this are about penis positive comradery. Accepting our smaller or average sized guys friends as one of us. Because if penis size is going to dictate our friendships and our interactions, there is something wrong with us. If hung guys only talk to hung guys with respect then there is no respect. If small guys can't talk proudly about their size without shame then what's the point?

Keep on sharing. Keep the pride.
 

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I pretty much feel the same way. Its quite depressing. Then I come to a place like this to pour salt on the wound. It seems I really like to punish myself for not having what women really want.

Women* do not want big dicks, forget about that idea because it is stupid.

That brings me to the very same topic of the post, the perception. Our society has (or the male portion at least) the perception that the bigger the better: big dicks are attractive, big dicks are better at sex.
FALSE

That is just not true, at least for women. Women do not care about size at all, if anything, they would generally prefer something around 5'-6' to something bigger (it what studies say!). And, in fact, bigger sizes can be painful druing the intercourse. I never saw a women staring at my pants, the only one who cares is my wife as she doesn't like if I wear trousers that show off.

Every time I heard guys "joking" about size, I always want to interrupt them and tell them this truth, but I never do, as every answer I get back will be either: "yeah? sure you say that because you don't have a big cock" or "oh wow, lucky you".
All of that is bullshit.

The size of your cock, if it is important to anyone, it is important for you and just for you. Don't spend your time comparing, just be happy with your body, doesn't matter how is it shaped!


*Some women probably do, but I am talking about the norm, based on opinion polls and on my personal experience
 

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I used to wonder why an average guy like myself is doing on here, a website dedicated to large penis - a sexual one at that. I find it a treasure to see topics like this that are created where guys can be vulnerable and express themselves without fear of shaming. I'm not here for pony show. I'm here for the penis positivity.

One thing I notice with so many topics on here are the guys who wouldn't be caught dead with a smaller dick. It's about looking superior and better than everyone else. But topics like this are about penis positive comradery. Accepting our smaller or average sized guys friends as one of us. Because if penis size is going to dictate our friendships and our interactions, there is something wrong with us. If hung guys only talk to hung guys with respect then there is no respect. If small guys can't talk proudly about their size without shame then what's the point?

Keep on sharing. Keep the pride.
Well said and I find chatting with other small guys really helpful
 

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Women* do not want big dicks, forget about that idea because it is stupid.

That brings me to the very same topic of the post, the perception. Our society has (or the male portion at least) the perception that the bigger the better: big dicks are attractive, big dicks are better at sex.
FALSE

That is just not true, at least for women. Women do not care about size at all, if anything, they would generally prefer something around 5'-6' to something bigger (it what studies say!). And, in fact, bigger sizes can be painful druing the intercourse. I never saw a women staring at my pants, the only one who cares is my wife as she doesn't like if I wear trousers that show off.

Every time I heard guys "joking" about size, I always want to interrupt them and tell them this truth, but I never do, as every answer I get back will be either: "yeah? sure you say that because you don't have a big cock" or "oh wow, lucky you".
All of that is bullshit.

The size of your cock, if it is important to anyone, it is important for you and just for you. Don't spend your time comparing, just be happy with your body, doesn't matter how is it shaped!


*Some women probably do, but I am talking about the norm, based on opinion polls and on my personal experience

Do you still put milk and cookie out for Santa Claus too? "Studies and polls" aren't credible, bro. Who knows who they polled, who was honest, etc. Women honestly say that they do care about size.
 

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My current partner will sometimes wave me away if she is still sore from our last time.

Look at what your problems are, and then look at what a small guy's problems are. Your girl doesn't want to fuck sometimes because she is sore. A guy with a small dick doesn't even have a girl.
 

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I used to wonder why an average guy like myself is doing on here, a website dedicated to large penis - a sexual one at that. I find it a treasure to see topics like this that are created where guys can be vulnerable and express themselves without fear of shaming. I'm not here for pony show. I'm here for the penis positivity.

One thing I notice with so many topics on here are the guys who wouldn't be caught dead with a smaller dick. It's about looking superior and better than everyone else. But topics like this are about penis positive comradery. Accepting our smaller or average sized guys friends as one of us. Because if penis size is going to dictate our friendships and our interactions, there is something wrong with us. If hung guys only talk to hung guys with respect then there is no respect. If small guys can't talk proudly about their size without shame then what's the point?

Keep on sharing. Keep the pride.

I stay on this website for the penis enlargement section plus there’s fun threads here as well.

Ive gained half an inch of girth and length since being on this site :)

Plenty more gains coming too
 
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Women* do not want big dicks, forget about that idea because it is stupid.

That brings me to the very same topic of the post, the perception. Our society has (or the male portion at least) the perception that the bigger the better: big dicks are attractive, big dicks are better at sex.
FALSE

That is just not true, at least for women. Women do not care about size at all, if anything, they would generally prefer something around 5'-6' to something bigger (it what studies say!). And, in fact, bigger sizes can be painful druing the intercourse. I never saw a women staring at my pants, the only one who cares is my wife as she doesn't like if I wear trousers that show off.

Every time I heard guys "joking" about size, I always want to interrupt them and tell them this truth, but I never do, as every answer I get back will be either: "yeah? sure you say that because you don't have a big cock" or "oh wow, lucky you".
All of that is bullshit.

The size of your cock, if it is important to anyone, it is important for you and just for you. Don't spend your time comparing, just be happy with your body, doesn't matter how is it shaped!


*Some women probably do, but I am talking about the norm, based on opinion polls and on my personal experience

Genau!

Bravo.

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My perception of penis size is this - we should ALL be satisfied with what we have.

There's no evidence that having a small, average, or large penis provides the owner with any greater or lesser pleasure. We all masturbate with our hands, a Fleshlight, or some such thing, right? If you can get your hand(s) or fingers around it, you are going to get pleasured.

I'm average - just touching 6" when fully erect. I'm not particularly girthy but apparently significant enough to satisfy my wife of 43 years.

I'm happy with what I am and what I have. One of my favorite sex acts is kneeling near my wife's head and having her suck my cock. When I watch my cock disappear into her mouth, I'm thankful that I'm just average because it appears to me that I fill her up pretty good. If I was 1" or more larger - forget it.

Even with my average cock, there have been some rare times and positions where I've hit my wife's cervix while fucking. Apparently, that's not something she enjoys. Again, if I was larger, I most likely wouldn't have had the sex I've enjoyed all these years.

She likely would have said, "no mas"
 

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I stay on this website for the penis enlargement section plus there’s fun threads here as well.

Ive gained half an inch of girth and length since being on this site :)

Plenty more gains coming too
Interesting! I've been stretching my dick skin and it's almost as if I had to grow into my skin. Years ago, I measured myself as 4.5" but now I'm 5.5. maybe I didn't measure right before.
 
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