- Maia,
All of my friends use small dildos. So that tells me something. I don't use a dildo but when I get to do the motion with my man, he tells me I only move on 1/3rd to 1/2 of his penis. I am doing EXACTLY what I want so I guess 4.5 to 5 inches is enough length for me, and I don't know what his girth measures, but it is also too much for me. I am guessing 5 inches length and 5 inches girth would be *perfect for my pussy*... but I really love to suck his huge cock, stroke it into my mouth, gag on it, try to fit my hands around the girth (I can't.) The visual/mental stimulation of having a big beast of a husband is worth the soreness :biggrin1: