My ideal and the popular idea of "perfection" are very different, but my ideal corresponds to what I'm looking for knowing what works for me. And I'm nothing if not flexible as regards men.
My ideal can be described as:
*Under 5'8
*Barrel chested/muscular pecs
*Ample, child-bearing hips
*Soft, round ass that moves when manipulated (not rock-hard muscleass)
*small-to-medium gut (no third-trimester triplets, thanks)
*Nicely developed thighs and calves
As far as penises go, I'm 80% indifferent to them. The kind of dick that excites me is smaller than average with a long-overhanging foreskin, though even in SoFla they are pretty rare. So I generally ignore the penis and focus on the hole, which I find much more interesting.