Performing sexual favors for disabled adults

[86Rick]

it could be implied in the title "...performing sexual FAVORS.."

Really? Ok.

 

[EagleCowboy]

I had a cousin who had CP (cerebral Palsy). It only affected the way that he walked and he could have walked normally if he really tried but he never did. We'll call him Chad for this.

One fine day I was over at my uncle's house and Chad's older brother, Blake (not his real name) was whining about how much pussy Chad was getting because of his disability. Now mind you, Blake was the ULTIMATE man whore. He fathered 13 kids by 12 different women. That we know of. Anyway, My uncle asked him what was wrong with that to which Blake replied that it was just out-and-out cheating. So I asked how how did he figure that? Blake said using a disability to get sex was wrong and it was just pity sex. Me, Chad and my uncle just cracked up laughing and told Blake, So what?? IT'S STILL SEX!!! I spoke up and pointed out that my uncle was a smooth talker to the ladies, which was all he had to use and it worked for him. That all I had to use was my charm and comedy and it worked for me, that he (Blake) got the gift of the Silver Tongue Devil (boy did he EVER!!!) and used it to his major advantage. Chad was using the only thing he had to get the sex. His disability. And it worked very well for him. (he never played it up, mind you) And that if I had a disability like Chad's I would have done the exact same thing!!

Some of those women that Chad brought home were unbelievably HAWT!!

 

[GottyGat]

Mentally disabled? No! The question of consent would make it morally and legally questionable.
Physically disabled? Absolutely.
Being physically disabled, in and of itself, does not make someone sexually unattractive.

 

[Ohioguy]

I have fed a paraplegic, that is I've let him give me blow jobs and eat my cum. We are both appreciative.

 

[Symphonic]

To be honest I do not know. There are so many types of disabilities and so many ranges within each class for severity. I probably would not for the severely disabled but I don't even know where that begins. Is a person who cannot walk but has a Master's degree more disabled than a personal who is mentally retarded but can? How do you even compare this kind of thing really?

 

[chancesare]

I used to have a fwb in a wheelchair. I knew he was in a wheelchair when was connected on CL. But I did not meet up with him for any other reason than because he seemed like a nice guy. And he was. We were super hot for each other, and it was all passion. If I had been looking to settle down with a dude, I would have dated him in a heartbeat. He is engaged now, and I really miss our meetings. Great guy.

 

[BigRedBen]

I have a great friend who lost all motions on his left arm and partly on right arm in a work related accident. Sadly there are people where i live who think that somekind of diasbility is equal as HIV and does not want to do anything with them..

He actually brought this up once in our monthly "male bonding sauna" evening, when i tend to just give a good back scrub & full body wash with a sponge. Asked me if i could just this once give him a handjob, and of course i did as a good friend i am.
Did not end just to a handjob that night. There was no pity or anything, just two men who needed someone there beside them.

After that we have been fuckbuddies ever since, whilst it's just once in a month due my schedule, i like to think that helping a friend out is a great thing.

 

[hairynycstud]

Physically disabled doesnt mean we are not sexual animals. Think this is reaffirmation that we all have value and recognition if our animal nature

 

[sammiec3]

many disabled do not need pity sex or for people to feel sorry for them

pity sex hell im diabled ill take any kinda sex

 

[ThirstyAndVersatile]

Ive suffered with agoraphobia for sometime. Therefore Ive been without sex for a long time. I've toyed with getting an escort and I've had invites for sex form guys but because of my condition I haven't been able to avail. I'm healthy and fit , am very sexual , but its just this condition

 

[palakaorion]

Having a disability doesn't negate a person's sexuality. It may remove them from consideration by some potential partners but move them up the list for others. So long as the disability isn't a full blown fetish where the disabled person is objectified without their consent, go for it!

I also realize that LPSG is a sex-positive environment and likely is not a representative slice of society. It wasn't that long ago there were laws which forbade disabled people from marrying and/or procreating, especially mentally disabled people. Sadly in some cases they were surgically sterilized as children "as a precaution." Laws tend to reflect society, and sometimes society ain't pretty.

 

[deleted957600]

I would say no to this issue as I don't think I'd be entirely comfortable with the idea.

One thing which was never addressed was that it does make a difference if someone you were involved with later became disabled vs already being disabled before you even met.

 

[Smoldering]

I think it's a great idea.

Remember that the organization has a protocol to determine who is eligible:

In order to decide who's entitled to use their services, Hand Angel first assess an applicant's level of disability. The person has to be recognized by the government as having a serious physical impairment, but can't be mentally disabled. Once they're cleared, the service is totally free, but each applicant can only receive three bouts of sexual stimulation.

I think the key is to have clear boundaries. If we're talking about a friend, it's easier - simply two people getting it on.

 

[sudcalifornio]

Prostitution is a necessary evil, at least on this situation

 

[marinera]

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