I had the snip (vasectomy) last Thursday. We have 2 lovely young kids - no need for more. Straight away afterwards I was telling my wife I need to cum 20-30 times between now and November to clean out the sperm. Straight faced she told me I could enlist others to help with that target - but she didn't want to know about it. I'm a little stunned by this. Now we've not had a brilliant sex life recently, but it's still a stunning thing to say. I've never strayed away (as much as I'd like) - so I don't know where this came from. I used to travel a lot on business, but don't any more - so no real opportunity to take advantage!