Permission to post pics

D_Ed69s girl

<img border="0" src="/images/badges/member.gif" wi
Joined
Oct 7, 2007
Posts
256
Media
0
Likes
0
Points
101
I can't speak for BHR, SP, NJ, TK or anyone else who S&S seems to have had a run in with, I can only speak of them. They may disagree with my interpretation of events.

When S&S first came on the board I (and a few of the others on that list and not - bar SP, I think) tried conversing with her in our normal styles. She reacted quite caustically to most of us, even when our intentions were not to offend - nor aimed specifically at her - just us being us. NJ has made some very positive, supportive comments recently and still had her face slapped - mainly, it seems, because S&S hadn't read certain other things NJ had posted to her and S&S did apologise in that instance.

I think what has happened here is that S&S has put all of our noses out of joint by being generally flamey at us regardless of our intent. It isn't nice to be repeatedly misread. If it appears we are ganging up, well that's unfortunate - I see it as just normal group dynamics playing out. But then I have a thick skin.

Earlier in this thread I said I won't respond to any more of her posts and I really think that is best - S&S seems to read comments from a very skewed perspective, very often reading what is not there at all, and takes her own interpretation as the only possible meaning - kind of like Madame Zora but completely devoid of intellect. (Now you see that is me having an unprovoked pop at someone - see the difference?)

I must say I couldn't of said it better. NO S&S has never slammed me. I have read several times were she has been more than unkind to many of the regular gal here. I only hope that she can learn and mature with all the info being presented her.
 

D_Ed69s girl

<img border="0" src="/images/badges/member.gif" wi
Joined
Oct 7, 2007
Posts
256
Media
0
Likes
0
Points
101
As far as to your question, PERMISSION IS A MUST NEVER ASSUME!!! My husband has always checked with me even though I have told him he can use the pictures what ever way he wants. He stills says honey I would like to post your picture here. I never object but appreciate the fact that he wants my input on were my picture is to be seen. And yeah you can be idenitfied by more than your face. If some one knows your body intimately a thigh can give lots away.
 

B_sugarandspice

Experimental Member
Joined
Nov 13, 2007
Posts
869
Media
0
Likes
6
Points
103
Location
DC
Sexuality
100% Straight, 0% Gay
Gender
Female
There's a difference between forum arguements and this constant bullshit. Honestly, it makes all the members of this so-called "hate committee" look REALLY FUCKING PATHETIC. As soon as this self-admittedly verbally challenged woman speaks, it's an invitation to rip her to shreds for existing (or not...and I have to admit as soon as the pics with the handles came up I laughed haughtily). And I don't feel any ridiculous love towards Sugar and Spice because she's very attractive...busty blondes are not my type at all, I couldn't really care less what she looks like. So WHAT if the post was ridiculous, unclear and meaningless. I'd like to see you and others jump on every single guy who goes on and LITERALLY says "Rate my pix plz!! Nu PIX!!!! HUNG 9+!" to be fair....Why is she such a target of venom from many women of this site? Whether or not its a sign of insecurity, that's all it looks like to unbiased 3rd party observers. Dumb blonde says something stupid --> Other girls need to rail on her to assert themselves to prove their confidence and point out that the hot dumb blonde isn't that great, or something like that.


Seriously, the vitriol towards sugar and spice has undermined the credibiliy of many women who seemed to be relatively neutral, somewhat thoughtful, maybe even slightly intelligent posters. Just makes them look like more catty bitches. I've seen enough of those thank you. And yeah, I considered not posting this because it won't stop anything, and I'll get lumped in with the "STFU She's gorgeous! I love S&S" guys, but ya know...what the hell, since there's no check in any of her haters' minds when it comes to latching on to her every action in an attempt to attack her....it's SENSELESS!

Dar Intarwebz is serius bizness!
Hello, if I knew how to write like him maybe I could have said that.
Why,do I have to be called dumb when I have 3 successful businesses?

I am actually going to be publishing a fashion magazine.
When does a challenge formerly called a disability make a person dumb? The only dumb thing I have done is to respond to these jerks around here.

I have used the dumb blonde thing to get by with a hell of a lot of shit.
I am actually quite notorious.

Only one fucking person has even tried to help me with some simple things I need so I can communicate better and no one has even asked me to make the needed corrections (or told me what and how).


They only thing offered has been to use spaces in between my paragraphs but I don't know if I am using the paragraphs properly.I can't fucking remember how because I have amnesia you fucking bunch of (I'm calling someone to see what the words I need are - no one answered so I'm on my own here) (I decided not to write cunts because I want to start expressing what I really want to say instead of name calling)!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


Shame one you. Really.
I'm ashamed for you.
That doesn't make me stupid,you hear me ?

You disrespect me and you just show what small minded individuals you are. You weren't raised right.My kids are not like you because they are smart like me. I have a geniuos IQ and was forced to go to MENSA when I was little.I hated the name of it because it reminds me of menstrual. They also have a lot of really obese people (MENSA).

I don't really know if it still counts (the IQ)since I have amnesia but it doesn't make me stupid.As a matter of fact I gave a woman a business of mine on an airplane ride. It was even after my TBI(Tramatic Brain Injury).She was a social worker and I could get through to her even though I had to take long pauses and try to describe what I mean and she would have to keep guessing the words for me until she got it and and she built the website and kept the name I gave it and everything on the notes that she took. It's really beautiful(the way I came up with it and the name).You should look at it.

I started crying because it makes me sooo sad. so so sad. I nearly died from an accidental drug overdose as a result of the frustration from the word recall and difficulties from the cognitive issues.You should look that up. Word recall ,the lack of it is the most devastating thing that I have endured as a result of my frontal lobe injury. I cry anytime I reminded about when I couldn't get words out.It hurt me that much.

Can you even imagine not being able to speak English and that was the only language you had? I had some Spanish but when no one was around who spoke Spanish I could not communicate at all sometimes.Do you have any idea how much that hurts. I became a very angry person for awhile.
I had to carry plush toys to keep from freaking out. I can barely type this because I am trembly and crying.
I used to go off and freak out!!
I had tantrums. I was a grown woman I who would throw fits...and it nearly killed me because I started using a substance.It wasn't the word recall that caused me to start using it was actually because I had flashbacks from PTSD.
I had actually run into an iron (thing that on a bed) -am I sooo fucking stupid?- bed post.It's getting better and it only took a half a minute to recall that word .I thought I would have to leave that sentence like that.

As I was saying I ran into the bedpost because I had a nightmare .I had REM Behavior Disorder from PTSD. thank you very much. do you feel good about yourself now?

It is called BobyBeloved.com

and when your done you can go and fuck yourselves and maybe you'll come again!
 

Qua

Legendary Member
Joined
Aug 3, 2007
Posts
1,600
Media
63
Likes
1,260
Points
583
Location
Boston (Massachusetts, United States)
Sexuality
No Response
Gender
Male
For the record, I was not passing any judgement on your intelligence. The dumb blonde comment was meant to illustrate the way these fights appear in how the reactions to your posts are worded.

EDIT: S&S I tried to go to your website, out of genuine interest, but I believe you mispelled the URL. Could you possibly re-post the link? Please understand my frustration and impatience is not with you here.
 

Tattooed Goddess

Worshipped Member
Verified
Gold
Joined
Oct 17, 2007
Posts
14,088
Media
70
Likes
20,563
Points
668
Location
United States
Verification
View
Sexuality
60% Straight, 40% Gay
Gender
Female
Just keep on typing S&S, someone will read it. I cant stomach to read your responses all the way through. I hate it when people go into their whole life story over and over again to more than explain their stories. Brain injury or not, its just painful to deal with you.

Just like Lafever, the more you type the more you prove our points about your overreactions to everything that is said.

You cant try to be civil, gain sympathy by your audience and then finish with a line like "and when you are done go fuck yourselves"

You cant be serious with those expectations, but then again shit attracts just as many flies as honey does, so i suppose you will find those to stick up for you.

Im sure here in about 47 minutes you will concoct some insult like "Well i'm the one with the bigger tits and you smell like poo poo" at this point i wouldnt be surprised at what depths you will go to in order to get your frustrations out.

If i were ugly, sure i'd probably be jealous of you. But i have no reason to be jealous of you, your looks and my looks are like comparing apples to oranges. We appeal to entirely different groups of men.
 

ManlyBanisters

Sexy Member
Joined
Mar 19, 2007
Posts
12,253
Media
0
Likes
58
Points
183
Red honey, seriously - I wouldn't bother yourself - she's not going interpret anything even vaguely close to what you mean from that post. Your time would be much better served coming over here, sitting on my knee and explaining that silly 100&#37; orientation of yours :tongue: :tongue: :biggrin:
 

Tattooed Goddess

Worshipped Member
Verified
Gold
Joined
Oct 17, 2007
Posts
14,088
Media
70
Likes
20,563
Points
668
Location
United States
Verification
View
Sexuality
60% Straight, 40% Gay
Gender
Female
ha ha! i love hi-jacking topics.

Honestly, i used to toy around with girls when i was younger and i had one incident with a woman when i was 18. i find i am so attracted to men, but also find the female body is so gorgeous to look at but thats about it for me. I found that because i have the same body parts i got a little bored and felt like i had no idea what i was doing compared to being with a cock. I also melt at a hairy manly body, its such the perfect counterpart to the female physique.

While i go to the strip club, go up and stick money in the gothic strippers g-string and let them grab my boobs. They are fun to play with on that level...but i couldnt pull down her panties and start licking her or anything.

I know that still makes no sense on the 100&#37; straight thing im sure...but there was a time when i could label myself probably 80% straight but now that i've had the experience with both a little moreso, i feel that i enjoy sex with a man so much more than with a woman. I know i know, those who are better lovers are going to ask me to keep my options open. Im so into my man that if i were single i'd probably keep the options open. But after 9 years of being happily married to the man, its hard to imagine being with anyone else and being as turned on towards them as i am for him. He knows all of my spots, ticks and quirks. ;)
 

B_sugarandspice

Experimental Member
Joined
Nov 13, 2007
Posts
869
Media
0
Likes
6
Points
103
Location
DC
Sexuality
100% Straight, 0% Gay
Gender
Female
For the record, I was not passing any judgement on your intelligence. The dumb blonde comment was meant to illustrate the way these fights appear in how the reactions to your posts are worded.

EDIT: S&S I tried to go to your website, out of genuine interest, but I believe you mispelled the URL. Could you possibly re-post the link? Please understand my frustration and impatience is not with you here.
Body image, emotional eating, eating disorders: Body Beloved
google it and get the link. looky there it works!
 

snoozan

Experimental Member
Joined
Sep 23, 2006
Posts
3,449
Media
0
Likes
22
Points
183
Sexuality
No Response
Hmm - interesting. Yes - there's nothing quite like cock is there. I wouldn't mind a girl fuck-buddy (if there were no objections from elsewhere) but I don't see that happening in the arseend of France, somehow. Oh well... my 10% can always watch porn...

i find that girl-girl porn sates my appetite for women very well. honestly, i've gotten more straight as i've gotten older and with my marriage i find i have little desire outside of it.

but you know, licking pussy can be really fun.
 

Tattooed Goddess

Worshipped Member
Verified
Gold
Joined
Oct 17, 2007
Posts
14,088
Media
70
Likes
20,563
Points
668
Location
United States
Verification
View
Sexuality
60% Straight, 40% Gay
Gender
Female
There is nothing like cock for sure. Its like i was born to know how to handle one, i can grab on some tits but start getting any lower than that on her body and i start looking like an idiot.

I can take pride in knowing exactly what to do with a penis....vaginas are a whole different complex sort of issues!

Im still figuring out what makes me orgasm...thank god i dont have to do that with my husband!
 

B_sugarandspice

Experimental Member
Joined
Nov 13, 2007
Posts
869
Media
0
Likes
6
Points
103
Location
DC
Sexuality
100% Straight, 0% Gay
Gender
Female
She has changed the site but she used to have the pitch I gave her.
It was something like..If you look in the mirror and don't love what you see...
she has really changed it all up so I don't see much of what I gave here except the name. I haven't read the whole site though.
I wonder if she changed it because I contacted her a year or two ago.
 

B_sugarandspice

Experimental Member
Joined
Nov 13, 2007
Posts
869
Media
0
Likes
6
Points
103
Location
DC
Sexuality
100% Straight, 0% Gay
Gender
Female
During the workshops, participants learn to:
  • identify the voices which lead them to value their exterior over their interior.
  • recognize and feel the damage that these voices inflict to the Self on a daily basis.
  • move from seeing the Body as a "thing" to be controlled and manipulated to attain exterior success to seeing it as a miraculous system that performs perfectly every second of the day.
  • develop a partnership with their bodies where both the Self's needs and the Body's needs are met, a partnership ruled by the effortlessness of the heart rather than the rigidity of the mind.
I gave her this workshop idea.
I used to do this,
I told her that insulting yourself is just as bad as if someone said it you you.(fat/ugly) and that the body hears that and it responds by being less attractive. So to be attractive you have to say to yourself how lovely you are.
When I find women loathing themselves in a mirror I tell them,"uh uh uh,that's not a good look for you. ,And then I say,"Supermodel-do the supermodel pose and they become so beautiful-every time.

see that's why the name is Body Beloved.
 

B_sugarandspice

Experimental Member
Joined
Nov 13, 2007
Posts
869
Media
0
Likes
6
Points
103
Location
DC
Sexuality
100% Straight, 0% Gay
Gender
Female
For the record, I was not passing any judgement on your intelligence. The dumb blonde comment was meant to illustrate the way these fights appear in how the reactions to your posts are worded.

EDIT: S&S I tried to go to your website, out of genuine interest, but I believe you mispelled the URL. Could you possibly re-post the link? Please understand my frustration and impatience is not with you here.
Body image, emotional eating, eating disorders: Body Beloved
google it and get the link.
 

ManlyBanisters

Sexy Member
Joined
Mar 19, 2007
Posts
12,253
Media
0
Likes
58
Points
183
i find that girl-girl porn sates my appetite for women very well. honestly, i've gotten more straight as i've gotten older and with my marriage i find i have little desire outside of it.

but you know, licking pussy can be really fun.

Amen to that! Though having said that - I haven't been with a woman in about 12 years - mainly to do with marriage (and monogomy) as well I suppose. Something I feel I should rectify at least before I die - if not sooner :rolleyes:

I can take pride in knowing exactly what to do with a penis....vaginas are a whole different complex sort of issues!

Well - if ever you decide you need some help with that... :biggrin1: