It's very hard for others to get me off. I also seem to have a "limited quantity" of sensation where stimulation will feel good for a few minutes, and then the sensation drops off until I basically have a numb dick, and getting off becomes tiring and perfunctory instead of arousing and relieving. Some points:
- I don't have too much difficulty achieving orgasm on my own, but I've never been a chronic masturbator either. I usually only do it once every 2-4 days. When I go longer, I definitely get hornier, but it doesn't solve the sensation problem.
- I don't use a "death grip" when masturbating. I kind of switch it up. Regardless, it doesn't matter how fast or slow or tight or loose someone else jerks me off, it rarely does it for me.
- Blowjobs feel like.... basically nothing to me. It just feels kind of warm, a bit tingly at first, and then nothing. Other guys describe it as mind-blowing but I'm just not seeing it.
- I'm not circumcised. This especially bothers me because the other uncut guys I know personally are far more sensitive than me.
- Position and blood flow don't seem to have any effect on it.
- If it were with partners that I was unsure of, it would be more understandable, but even with my very close boyfriend of five years, it still happens more often than not. I don't feel anxious, and am often the one to initiate contact, and yet it still happens.
- I don't have any erection difficulties, quite the opposite in fact. My erections come on easily and stay around for much longer than most other guys I've been with.
- I am on sertraline, but only for the past few months, and this problem has been around for years.
- Docking another guy's dick in my foreskin CAN make me cum, and really quickly too! But that's.. not really the only thing I want to do.
- I don't really have anal sex.