regularguy, with all that was posted before this... one of the main things to keep in mind is that (sweeping generalization here) most guys who advertise "PnP" in their ads also insist on the "play" part being bareback. I'm sure there may be a few out there who don't fit that mold, but I have met or known way too many PnP guys before. I wouldn't have sex with any of them, simply because they even asked once if I would have unprotected sex with them. No, not worth it. As for the NSA, I have met lots of those, too, but most of them claimed otherwise. (By that, I mean I met guys who claimed to want a relationship, but I find out a month or two later that they are serial monogamists, usually lasting a week or two before moving on.) Good luck, guy, and keep your wits about you.