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vinny_spiruccino said:though there is a <unfortuneately slowly>growing contingency of Christians who reject the traditional anti-gay interpretations of the Bible, have reconciled their faith with it directly, and have concluded that the traditional "clobber passages" that seemingly denounce homosexuality don't actually denounce it at all...
Vinny's point is very much still the most important one in this thread from the perspective of the original poster.
It IS very difficult to leave a church if it is not just a place to profess a belief system, but it has also been your social home and the center of the community to which you belonged in a secular sense also. Many of us have chosen to do so along the way, for the very reasons often explicated throughout this thread. I would suggest that exhotations to leave the church and make a personal relationship with God overlook the need to have a social and community home for many people. Spirituality is the most important thing, but we overlook the need of many to be in communion with others in worship.
That is why I think Vinny's point that there are welcoming churches, that have moved past old interpretations of sexuality-based passages and seek to minister to current, diverse, congregations. I suspect replacing the old community with a new one would greatly ease the pain of leaving a place where you have deep roots, even if it has become an uncomfortable place. At least, that is how it worked for me.