Typically, how much of your attraction to someone is based upon their body and how much is really personality? I find myself constantly in the company of (objectively) beautiful women, but quite frequently don't feel a strong attraction to them. Conversely, I can find myself feeling attracted to someone who has few, if any, physical charms, but has something really going with her personality. This is not to say that I haven't been attracted to beautiful women, actually almost all of my long-term relationships were with women who would be thought of as being quite "attractive," but it was their personalities which really fueled my sexual desires.
How many of you find that appearance might initially catch your eye, but it takes something interesting behind the pretty face to really get your libido going with someone? Or is a killer body (or body part) all that is needed for you?
I'm speaking from the perspective of a straight male, but I'm sure this applies equally to all human beings across the spectrum of sexual preferences and genders.
How many of you find that appearance might initially catch your eye, but it takes something interesting behind the pretty face to really get your libido going with someone? Or is a killer body (or body part) all that is needed for you?
I'm speaking from the perspective of a straight male, but I'm sure this applies equally to all human beings across the spectrum of sexual preferences and genders.