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rbi99

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From reading your comments, it's pretty clear to me (assuming you ladies are fairly representative of your gender), that you much prefer a guy with a great personality and sense of humor, and that awesome body parts are simply an added bonus. So many guys sweating the body stuff, and that's not where it's at for you.
 

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For me, looks/physique can develop as I get to know someone.

I know a guy who happens to be very "good looking" imo, but his attitude turned me completely off and looking at him now does nothing for me at all.

Another guy I know wasn't particularly "good looking" imo at first, but after interactions I find him very appealing to look at. He's shorter than me, not particularly built... But I find myself eyeing him often when he's around.

So, my point is... Looks develop and evolve depending on what kind of connection I have to the person. I will literally find someone more physically attractive if I feel connected to them. I can have great sex with someone I don't have "romantic" feelings for, or who I don't find physically appealing as long as I feel *that* connection. At the same time, I refuse to fuck a guy who may look really tasty but has nothing else to offer.

If he can't make me laugh, smile, think, and show respect he can't get in me.
 

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When I was single I had a shopping list. I wanted a 6'5" cowboy with a mustache and tight butt. Every tall cowboy I met was a dick. I threw away my list and quit shopping. Then I found him. About the only thing he checked off on the list was that he was a guy and a terribly nice guy. He was good looking, but he wasn't tall, had a beard, and wasn't from Texas.

It's quite apparent that women are looking a little deeper than men. But what attracts one woman might not attract the next. We don't really have a hive mine except for one thing: we can't bear assholes.

Like TnJ said, I need a relationship in order to be sexually intimate with someone. I can't do a one-night stand. I can't meet you then go back to your place the same evening. There's got to be something under the hood (not pants) that makes me want to go to your place eventually.

If I'd go with a guy for his looks then I'd probably buy a house for its paint.
 
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