Perspectives on male users of site and self
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I almost forgot to mention this site has made me wonder what the fuck anatomy lessons people have been getting taught, too. Dudes talking about fucking women's cervix, entering her womb, saying the cervix is 8" deep, as well as propagating stupid completely unfounded stereotypes about a woman's height/weight/ethnicity determining their internal dimensions for PiV sex.
Also, the somewhat disturbing amount of men (still a minority, but definitely enough to notice them) who seem to get off on/enjoy hurting women during sex. And I do NOT mean consensual kinky sex. I am all about me some kinky pervy fun times. I'm talking about men on here who brag (whether it's true or not) about making women bleed, tearing them, etc because their dick is just soooo huge and an amazing piece of man flesh blah blah blah. Bleh.
Also, the somewhat disturbing amount of men (still a minority, but definitely enough to notice them) who seem to get off on/enjoy hurting women during sex. And I do NOT mean consensual kinky sex. I am all about me some kinky pervy fun times. I'm talking about men on here who brag (whether it's true or not) about making women bleed, tearing them, etc because their dick is just soooo huge and an amazing piece of man flesh blah blah blah. Bleh.
My opinion hasn't changed because I don' think this site's male membership represents all men outside. Thinking that is a mistake, the same mistake most men here do overestimating this site (and all the size related talks, which are not so important in the real world).
The problem is related to internet and the anonymity who brings out all the perversion inside us: I'm anonimous too here, but at least i try to be polite, but most people don't do that.
I change the question of the op: if you were asking "men here behave worst than women?" that would be very easy to answer....
The problem is related to internet and the anonymity who brings out all the perversion inside us: I'm anonimous too here, but at least i try to be polite, but most people don't do that.
I change the question of the op: if you were asking "men here behave worst than women?" that would be very easy to answer....
Wow that's a very thoughtful response and a different angle on this again. There's definitely something in people (men) thinking the way this place works and the anonymity legitimises being a prick.
Oh and you are most definitely one of the most polite, friendly and courteous people I've spoken to here...
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How I am on here is exactly the way I am in my real life. I say it how it is. The internet doesn't give me balls I don't already have.
I agree, and that's good
I was referring to other sites, like the simple examples of facebook or twitter, where the majority of bullies are all anonimous.That's a good way to be sure but I think some men in particular and perhaps women (IDK) might be buoyed by the shroud of the interweb into behaving in a way they'd never dream of in real life. This is the shortcoming with any 'ask a...' type thread, we are all individual and complex and as such the most one can expect from any question one might care to ask is something approaching a consensus.
I'm as blunt in person as I am online. I have no tolerance for fuckery (blah blah, I put up with things that I must for work, blah). There's a reason I keep my social circle on the smaller side. My standards for the people I surround myself with are high. Multiple women who already posted in this thread explicitly specified we know it's not even all the users on this site, much less how all men everywhere are.
I don't think it's a "perversion" that some people here and elsewhere are manipulative fucks. I just consider it a character flaw. I don't think it's a "perversion" that someone is a bigot. It's also something that I consider a character flaw. Consensual kinky fun may be "perverse" to some, but for me it's just another day in the life. People enjoying hurting someone, where consent is not given could be considered a perversion, but again, I consider it much more a symptom of other potential issues. People being horny, people being an exhibitionist, people being a voyeur, that's all something I really don't care about, am not bothered by, etc so long as everything is consenting adults.
This site has a small percentage of users (which is something I already touched on previously in this exact same thread) who are pretty fucked up individuals, in my eyes. I know people exist like that outside of the internet of course, I wouldn't consider myself even remotely naive, but with the online anonymity specific individuals are much more open about it. So, again, it's much more in my face that some people are pieces of shit. Some. Not all. Not even the majority. Some. Then again, I've also been on the site more than seven years and spent a looot of hours on it.
I don't think it's a "perversion" that some people here and elsewhere are manipulative fucks. I just consider it a character flaw. I don't think it's a "perversion" that someone is a bigot. It's also something that I consider a character flaw. Consensual kinky fun may be "perverse" to some, but for me it's just another day in the life. People enjoying hurting someone, where consent is not given could be considered a perversion, but again, I consider it much more a symptom of other potential issues. People being horny, people being an exhibitionist, people being a voyeur, that's all something I really don't care about, am not bothered by, etc so long as everything is consenting adults.
This site has a small percentage of users (which is something I already touched on previously in this exact same thread) who are pretty fucked up individuals, in my eyes. I know people exist like that outside of the internet of course, I wouldn't consider myself even remotely naive, but with the online anonymity specific individuals are much more open about it. So, again, it's much more in my face that some people are pieces of shit. Some. Not all. Not even the majority. Some. Then again, I've also been on the site more than seven years and spent a looot of hours on it.
I forgot to answer part of your question...
As far as my own sexuality... I've actually had to hold back in my posts because some of the things I'm into may get me reported. I've always been a filthy Fuck in my head. This place has changed absolutely nothing there.
As far as my own sexuality... I've actually had to hold back in my posts because some of the things I'm into may get me reported. I've always been a filthy Fuck in my head. This place has changed absolutely nothing there.
Now that's just cruel and a sure fire way to play up to us shallow, singularly motivated males' fantasies about what really goes on in (some at least) ladies heads.
Basically you've in a single post performed a bit of a mic drop moment bravo!
Damn you but thanks for the honesty.
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