Perverts in the gym lockers

[sangheili90]

I agree with GET A ROOM. I am constantly amazed by all the comments from members who claim younger guys are shy and that many men are reluctant to shower or be nude in the locker room. Yet I hear all this crazy talk about jerk off sessions or sex in the gym sauna. If you want to have sex, PLEASE leave the gym and go GET A ROOM. The gym is for working out and the showers and sauna are for relaxing afterwards. Many men will NEVER feel comfortable walking around nude as long as these PERV's are there trolling and engaging in sexual activity. I am all for everyone doing whatever they want sexually as long as all are consenting adults. HOWEVER there is a time and place for everything. I would not be comfortable or happy if I walked into the shower area or sauna and saw a group of men jacking off. If you want that, then PLEASE visit a Bath house or Gay Sauna. It's time for everyone to grow up and respect the other members of the gym.

Bingo, we have ourselves here a logical, sane individual who comprehends the issue at hand. Anyone who actively engages in this type of behavior should be seen as highly questionable in my opinion, if they are willing to o stuff like this in a public setting who knows what they would do to a kid, pet etc. Bunch of fucking weirdos. If you are at the gym and just cant refrain from jerking off at least use one of the stalls, if you want to hook up with the guy in the sauna get his number and do it at your place.......wtf is wrong with people lol.

 

[keenobserver]

Bingo, we have ourselves here a logical, sane individual who comprehends the issue at hand. Anyone who actively engages in this type of behavior should be seen as highly questionable in my opinion, if they are willing to o stuff like this in a public setting who knows what they would do to a kid, pet etc. Bunch of fucking weirdos. If you are at the gym and just cant refrain from jerking off at least use one of the stalls, if you want to hook up with the guy in the sauna get his number and do it at your place.......wtf is wrong with people lol.

I think your logic has completely broken down. Merely because two consenting adults choose to engage in a place that is inappropriate - which I generally agree a gym locker room is - does not mean they are even remotely ever going to be sexually inappropriate with children. You are really cranking this thread into an anti gay screed that is offensive. You have set the table to ask the question wtf is wrong with you? This is entirely beyond the pale of rational discussion.

 

[sangheili90]

I think your logic has completely broken down. Merely because two consenting adults choose to engage in a place that is inappropriate - which I generally agree a gym locker room is - does not mean they are even remotely ever going to be sexually inappropriate with children. You are really cranking this thread into an anti gay screed that is offensive. You have set the table to ask the question wtf is wrong with you? This is entirely beyond the pale of rational discussion.

You are missing the point, someone doing this stuff in public is questionable, not sure if you missed the part where I said a guy who can't refrain from masturbating at the gym should at the very least use the stall in the bathroom. This isn't an anti gay rant, this is a rant against people who for some reason cannot control themselves in a public place.

 

[Exbiker]

I think people are meant to be sexual. To respond to other people's bodies.

Bonobo monkeys do it, and so do we...

So, it's not at all surprising that some of it happens in gyms and locker rooms, sometimes... Lots of flesh on display ... Q.E.D...

What matters are just consent, protection of younger people, and basic politeness. All the people talking as if sexual contact - even in public, even between relative strangers - is always a terrible thing are just too uptight ... In my view.

 

[cock30]

Bingo, we have ourselves here a logical, sane individual who comprehends the issue at hand. Anyone who actively engages in this type of behavior should be seen as highly questionable in my opinion, if they are willing to o stuff like this in a public setting who knows what they would do to a kid, pet etc. Bunch of fucking weirdos. If you are at the gym and just cant refrain from jerking off at least use one of the stalls, if you want to hook up with the guy in the sauna get his number and do it at your place.......wtf is wrong with people lol.

Mate...my honest experience is yes this stuff does go on but it's always discreet. If someone walked into the sauna and I was just sat there wanking myself or some guy was sucking me off then apart from getting my head kicked in I would then be reported to the gym management and the police and probably locked up. Only an idiot or someone with no control over themselves would be that stupid. However when there are two maybe three guys on the same wave length it can happen. It does and I have seen it. But yeah, the stories where suddenly groups of guys are just jacking off in the jacuzzi or fucking openly in the showers are stretching the imagination somewhat! Stuff happens but people who don't want to be involved...aren't.

 

[sangheili90]

I think people are meant to be sexual. To respond to other people's bodies.

Bonobo monkeys do it, and so do we...

So, it's not at all surprising that some of it happens in gyms and locker rooms, sometimes...

What matters are just consent, protection of younger people, and basic politeness. All the people talking as if sexual contact - even in public, even between relative strangers - is always a terrible thing are just too uptight ... In my view.

Bonobos also shit wherever they please, so I guess that means its ok for me to go defecate on my neighbors lawn. Anyway, human beings are expected to behave in a civilized manner, not like an animal.

Again, as several other posters have stated the "get a room" phrase comes to mind.

 

[sangheili90]

Mate...my honest experience is yes this stuff does go on but it's always discreet. If someone walked into the sauna and I was just sat there wanking myself or some guy was sucking me off then apart from getting my head kicked in I would then be reported to the gym management and the police and probably locked up. Only an idiot or someone with no control over themselves would be that stupid. However when there are two maybe three guys on the same wave length it can happen. It does and I have seen it. But yeah, the stories where suddenly groups of guys are just jacking off in the jacuzzi or fucking openly in the showers are stretching the imagination somewhat! Stuff happens but people who don't want to be involved...aren't.

That's what I've been trying to get at this whole time, I'm sure people have done stuff at the gym but it was always discreet, not made completely apparent like some on here make it out to be, and in that case those people are probably fucked beyond help. I'm horny, I guess I'll just pull out my dick and start masturbating in the middle of the office right here and now.

 

[sangheili90]

Mate...my honest experience is yes this stuff does go on but it's always discreet. If someone walked into the sauna and I was just sat there wanking myself or some guy was sucking me off then apart from getting my head kicked in I would then be reported to the gym management and the police and probably locked up. Only an idiot or someone with no control over themselves would be that stupid. However when there are two maybe three guys on the same wave length it can happen. It does and I have seen it. But yeah, the stories where suddenly groups of guys are just jacking off in the jacuzzi or fucking openly in the showers are stretching the imagination somewhat! Stuff happens but people who don't want to be involved...aren't.

My entire life the only time I've seen someone engage in a sexual activity in public was an individual who was retarded.

 

[cock30]

That's what I've been trying to get at this whole time, I'm sure people have done stuff at the gym but it was always discreet, not made completely apparent like some on here make it out to be, and in that case those people are probably fucked beyond help. I'm horny, I guess I'll just pull out my dick and start masturbating in the middle of the office right here and now.

Ha ha! Yeah mate I'll be honest with you now done stuff but as I said above, it's been when I'm 100% sure the other guy wants it and there's been no one else around. It just wouldn't happen any other way. People would get nicked for stuff like that and put on the sex offenders register. It's a horny thought and many a fantasy are based on that locker/gym theme....but the reality is far less attractive and far more risky. Like I say yeah I've been involved in stuff a few times but never if I actually thought we were gonna be caught or seen.

 

[cock30]

My entire life the only time I've seen someone engage in a sexual activity in public was an individual who was retarded.

Really? Forget the locker room scene but youve had a pretty sheltered life if that's true.

 

[sangheili90]

Ha ha! Yeah mate I'll be honest with you now done stuff but as I said above, it's been when I'm 100% sure the other guy wants it and there's been no one else around. It just wouldn't happen any other way. People would get nicked for stuff like that and put on the sex offenders register. It's a horny thought and many a fantasy are based on that locker/gym theme....but the reality is far less attractive and far more risky. Like I say yeah I've been involved in stuff a few times but never if I actually thought we were gonna be caught or seen.

That makes sense to me, some thought this was an anti gay rant but I was talking about people who do this without a care, like its perfectly normal and acceptable for it to be out in the open for everyone to see.

 

[sangheili90]

Really? Forget the locker room scene but youve had a pretty sheltered life if that's true.

Well, in a manner that was extremely apparent and totally out there. I've seen stuff that you knew what was going on but it was still discreet to a point.

 

[sangheili90]

Ha ha! Yeah mate I'll be honest with you now done stuff but as I said above, it's been when I'm 100% sure the other guy wants it and there's been no one else around. It just wouldn't happen any other way. People would get nicked for stuff like that and put on the sex offenders register. It's a horny thought and many a fantasy are based on that locker/gym theme....but the reality is far less attractive and far more risky. Like I say yeah I've been involved in stuff a few times but never if I actually thought we were gonna be caught or seen.

Honestly, if I walked into the showers at my gym and saw a bunch of guys standing there stroking their dicks I'd probably just say "WTF" turn around and walk away lol, I wouldn't kick anyone's ass but I'm sure a lot of guys would.

 

[cock30]

99% of my mates are straight and our relationship is based ontrust. I've had to shower loads of times with a lot of them naked at the gym and other situations, st home, hotel rooms etc... if I just started trying it on with them or wanking myself off infront of them I would have lost a lot of mates by now

 

[cock30]

That makes sense to me, some thought this was an anti gay rant but I was talking about people who do this without a care, like its perfectly normal and acceptable for it to be out in the open for everyone to see.[/QUOTE

99% of my mates straight mates who I have had to shower with at the gym and other situations throughout my life...acting like a perv and starting to wank myself off would have lost me every mate I have.

 

[Exbiker]

What really bothers people about it?

I'm not entirely sure why (most) people prefer it to be private?

A lot of people (say they) like the idea of swingers parties or orgies ...it's an idea you see in soft porn/ even soap operas sometimes ...

So. We're all conditioned. Wear clothes. Work 9-5. Buy stuff. Go on vacation. Drive a good car... Who says we all have to be satisfied with just that? Some of us are artists, performers, scientists, entertainers ... Why shouldn't some of us enjoy showing our bodies, or even having sex that isn't completely private ...? What's actually wrong with it, really?

I suspect it does come back to that issue of informed consent?

 

[sangheili90]

99% of my mates are straight and our relationship is based ontrust. I've had to shower loads of times with a lot of them naked at the gym and other situations, st home, hotel rooms etc... if I just started trying it on with them or wanking myself off infront of them I would have lost a lot of mates by now

Even just the wanking part would have made you lose friends, regardless of you being straight or gay lol, not sure how some people on here can't comprehend that lol. If you did this around a group of complete strangers I don't want to know what the consequences would be lol, I'd think you were just retarded or insane lol.

 

[sangheili90]

What really bothers people about it?

I'm not entirely sure why (most) people prefer it to be private?

A lot of people (say they) like the idea of swingers parties or orgies ...it's an idea you see in soft porn/ even soap operas sometimes ...

So. We're all conditioned. Wear clothes. Work 9-5. Buy stuff. Go on vacation. Drive a good car... Who says we all have to be satisfied with just that? Some of us are artists, performers, scientists, entertainers ... Why shouldn't some of us enjoy showing our bodies, or even having sex that isn't completely private ...? What's actually wrong with it, really?

I suspect it does come back to that issue of informed consent?

I guess its ok for me to go put on a trench coat and flash everyone around that I see on the street, there isn't anything wrong with that....right?

When you got to a swingers party or an orgy you go into that knowing full well what to expect, that is a terrible comparison my friend. When someone walks into a gym locker room to change use the shower or the sauna that is what they expect it to be used for, not for any type of open sexual activity. It just shows a complete lack of respect or consideration for those who are around, and quite frankly I think it shows a complete lack of control, which I've brought up and explained several times in this thread.

 

[sangheili90]

What really bothers people about it?

I'm not entirely sure why (most) people prefer it to be private?

A lot of people (say they) like the idea of swingers parties or orgies ...it's an idea you see in soft porn/ even soap operas sometimes ...

So. We're all conditioned. Wear clothes. Work 9-5. Buy stuff. Go on vacation. Drive a good car... Who says we all have to be satisfied with just that? Some of us are artists, performers, scientists, entertainers ... Why shouldn't some of us enjoy showing our bodies, or even having sex that isn't completely private ...? What's actually wrong with it, really?

I suspect it does come back to that issue of informed consent?

If you knew a guy who masturbated in public, plain view and completely obvious to everyone, you wouldn't think that guy was a potential issue?

 

[Exbiker]

If you knew a guy who masturbated in public, plain view and completely obvious to everyone, you wouldn't think that guy was a potential issue?

That's certainly the convention, yes.

But I'm asking why. Ie what's really wrong about it?

I get the thing about minors. So let's say precautions are taken. Other than that, what's really the problem?

Why are human beings conditioned to be at least partly ashamed of our sex organs, and our sexuality??