pet peeve during oral sex..anyone else agree?

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  1. wristthickxl

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    Hi,

    Maybe it's just me but does anyone else who is quite hung here have the same pet peeve?:

    9 times out of 10, when someone is performing oral sex on me, they put one hand on my dick, as if they need to hold on or something.....

    strangely, in the last few years, I've started to lose my erection if guys do this constantly...

    ie, I prefer they keep their hands off my dick and just try to suck on me.....

    I have asked some guys why they immediately put one hand on my dick...most say they need to do so to get a handle on it because of the size....and since they can't deepthroat me, they don't see why it's a problem..

    I'm not sure why my body, or cock, reacts the way it does either but does anyone else have this, ie if a guy or gal has a grip on your cock constantly while sucking on you , that you start to lose interest??
     
  2. KinkGuy

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    In my experience, they really do it to prevent your thrusting. They don't want you pushing in more than they can handle.

    I agree, it does somewhat, take the thrill out of the experience. Thrusting into a willing and capable mouth is not something the "BIG" guys get to experience very often.

    I don't have the "length" problem, but girth.

    I just wish my cock was my current thickness.....and about 2" longer. But, oh well.


    Edit:
    Oh, and teeth. Yeow. Which I encounter most often.
     
  3. GottaBigOne

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    I actually like it when they do that, it looks fucking hot, especially when they hold it at the bottom and can't even get enough in their mouth to touch their fingers with their lips. I like to see how big my dick is sometimes, maybe because it reminds me of pornos.
     
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    I always wondered why people would do that. It never made sense to me when there are many other things you can do with your hands while sucking
     
  5. Pene_Negro_Grande

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    I actually like it when they use the hands and the mouth at the same time...I really hate when people start and stop constantly during oral sex...
     
  6. writernyc

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    I've heard from a lot of the guys I service that they don't like the "hand jive" and if they wanted a handjob they'd go back to high school. Still, other guys like hand and mouth work toward the end of the bj and until unloading.

    Unless a guy asks for handwork, I only put a hand on a guys cock every once in a while to move spit all over the shaft so that I can get back to really working him.

    My guys complain that there seems to be a spit shortage among cocksuckers, and I'm determined to keep my men wet.
     
  7. jonb

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    Yeah, it's fun when she uses both at the same time. And if she's tired of using her mouth, her hands, while disappointing, are better than nothing at all.

    Oh, other things you can do with your hands include fiddling with the balls and taint.
     
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    Wow man, I I understand where you're coming from but I really like it when a guy has ahold of my cock while he is sucking it. This is becasue like you 99% of guys can't throat me and I like whole shaft stimulation. I especially like it when he lubes his hand with spit and slides it up and down the length of my cock as he is sucking it becasue then I can close my eyes and imagine he is throating it.

    jimmy
     
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    I know LPSG gets lots of hot posts every day but I'll have to hand it to GottaBigOne for providing the hottest one I've come across for several days. I picture his looking down at his dick with the sucker's hand wrapped around at the base and inches showing before coming to the lips and mouth engorged with many additional inches. Fuck, that's hot.
     
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    I don't mind a combination of hand and mouth action. Teeth are ALWAYS out.
    I DO mind, however, when a guy/girl decides to turn the blowjob into a hand job with no intention of going oral again.

    Note to cocksuckers everywhere: If I wanted a handjob, I would be sitting in front of the DVD player jerking off to porn!! (ands I say cocksucker in the most LOVING way possible)

    That being said--I do so love a guy who likes to cup my balls, finger my ass and stuff his face at the same.

    God Bless American--land of the perverted and repressed. ;)
     
  11. CharlieDick

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    I don't mind a hand on it, because these young Asians, like the Mexicans, have small hands that can't go all the way around it. Two Asians refused to suck me off because they thought it was too thick!

    I use my fingers around the top and bottom of a dick if it's soft, to restrict the blood flow out of the dick, while I'm sucking. Once it's hard, I prefer not to hold the base, unless the guy is over 6.5 inches long, which hardly happens in Asia, even with rental guys.

    I hate it when somebody's supposed to be sucking me, and then he takes it out of his mouth and tries to give me a handjob. I tell them, "suck me, don't beat me off!" Nobody, except a 7.25-inch Mexican guy, could beat me off to climax, and that was only because I was deep-throating him at the time. Well, except my wife, before we married and started fucking; she'd give me a hand job while I ate her pussy. That was fun.

    If we're doing the sucking, we should ask if they want us to hold the shaft. If we're being sucked, we should tell the sucker what we want. There was one Mexican guy who would jack himself off as I sucked it!
     
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    *drops dead of heart-attack* I like to see how big your dick is sometimes too.
     
  13. DC_DEEP

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    The hand is ok during oral, but teeth are my absolute pet peeve. My partner prefers handwork along with the mouthwork, and on some rare occasions, he has to remind me to "use some hand!"
     
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    A big % of the time, it's flattering to see that they can actually grasp my cock with a hand and still engulf me to reasonable amounts. It can be sometimes a dual action as well, stroking me off while bobbing on me. Now that's a turn on that has no boundaries.
     
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    I like hands on also due to the fact they can make my foreskin go up and down and bunch up and hold it so they can chew on it and suck out my pre-cum...Its super sexy! Jose'Latinoboy9
     
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    I enjoy some hand action, it's just more stimulation for my penis. And yeah, sliding the skin around, varying the tension on my frenulum as she sucks me off, can be very good. Just as long as it doesn't turn into a Paris Hilton job where it's just a handjob with her mouth on the knob.
     
  17. jonb

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    "Paris Hilton job"?
     
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    Small hands could take a 9 incher by each end and have room for nibbling like eating a corn-on-the-cob, Jose'. Perchance have you experienced that 'piccolo' effect?

    Luke
     
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    Reference to a Paris Hilton sex video where she's giving a really lousy blowjob.
     
  20. jonb

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    She's like Kansas: Flat, white, and easy to enter.
     
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