It's totally natural to feel intimidated, but relax, it will be fine as long as you don't rush it. My gf is 105 lbs, 5'2", and I', 6'2" and more than twice her size, so we've had this problem and managed to get past it.
You will be able to accommodate probably a much bigger dick than you ever imagined, you just need to preheat that oven! If he tries to penetrate you after you've kissed once, it will not work, and it very well could be a bad experience. But let the foreplay linger a bit, make sure he's got you nice and wett, very wett, let him go down on you, finger you, and just enjoy it.
When it comes time to penetrate, how smooth things go will largely depend on how patient the guy is, he should start by just slowly entering the head of his cock inside of you, slowly. Let him slide in and out with just the head of his cock so you can start to become accustomed to his size. Communicate with him and be encouraging, (just as he should be with you) and start to allow him to go deeper. Let him take five or ten minutes of just a few inches deep penetration. You will begin to feel more comfortable with his size and will start to fit him better, and the more relaxed you become, the better it will feel for you.
After you've let him get at least half of his cock inside of you, and if you are still aroused and enjoying yourself (as you should be) there is a phenomenon I've heard of called 'tenting', where the womens uterus shifts upwards as she becomes more aroused, and allows for a much deeper penetration. At this point (I don't know how long it takes for every woman to become 'tented') you should be able to take his entire length.
The best part of this is you're in this state, your A-spot becomes exposed, (anterior fornix) this spot is located between the cervix and the bladder, and if his cock is long enough to reach it, it produces the most intense orgasmic contractions that keep coming with direct stimulation.
Check out these sites they may be helpful for you.
Longer Penises Cause More Vaginal Satisfaction
Desmond Morris: The Clitoris, A-Spot, G-Spot and U-Spot
Hope this helps!
D.
Hi! i love this forum, it's very interesting to say the least. i'd love to hear your own experience on this.
i'm new to all this, so here's my concern. i just met this guy, he told me he's around 8". i am small and snug (comes from a tight, strong body people) and he says i'll stretch to fit him. i really like him and am very, very hot for him, so yeah this is going all out here. anyway, tell me if this will happen over time, will i get longer? ladies, give me your experience as well.
thanks everyone, have a great day!