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My GF is the same way. I never understood that. You expect us to stick our dicks in you, its only fair that we have a very good understanding of all the orifices and your unique quirks.

He's free to explore everything he wants in bed, but with me, everything that normally happens behind closed bathroom doors should stay private. A lot of people get to a point of comfort where one person can use the toilet while the other one brushes his teeth and that works for them. That's not me.

To the woman who said that she hates when a guy looks at another woman and forgets she's even there.
Nice guys won't do that, but assholes will do it on purpose. It's a war out there now and guys that don't use the dirty tricks are at a disadvantage. Like looking at another woman to make your girl jealous/insecure/keep her guessing. No matter how much women say they hate guys like that 9 times out of 10 it works. Women just react to it instinctively without even realizing it.

I do hate it when men do this and I think I'd stop dating a man if I thought he did it on purpose or if he did it too often or too obviously. :mad: Sometimes there's a woman so attractive that I'm looking at her, too, so I guess I'm not bothered by that as much. That's just human nature.

Having said that, TheBoyfriend has caught me looking. He knows I like buff joggers and bikers, so if there's one in sight, he looks at my face to see if I've looked at him. Sometimes I am. It makes me feel awful and I know I turn red when he catches me. :redface:
 

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See I don't understand it. I know I'm attractive I don't feel uncomfortable with myself at all. It's just been something he's always done. IDK sometimes your just with someone so long you wonder if you should just ignore it because that's just who they are or if they really do it on purpose.
 

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Maybe the women here are cruel but they won't tell you to act more confident, smile like you own it, etc. Even though it's what they want, they just kinda expect you to do it. If you don't act like they're nothing special I get the feeling they think you're a weiner. It seems they want a kind of strong,stoic,cocky men, then complain they aren't open and communicative. :p
In short it seems they want to have their cake and eat it too.
 

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Maybe the women here are cruel but they won't tell you to act more confident, smile like you own it, etc. Even though it's what they want, they just kinda expect you to do it. If you don't act like they're nothing special I get the feeling they think you're a weiner. It seems they want a kind of strong,stoic,cocky men, then complain they aren't open and communicative. :p
In short it seems they want to have their cake and eat it too.

You lost me?
 

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See I don't understand it. I know I'm attractive I don't feel uncomfortable with myself at all. It's just been something he's always done. IDK sometimes your just with someone so long you wonder if you should just ignore it because that's just who they are or if they really do it on purpose.

I don't feel like there's absolutely anything wrong with looking in general. I look at porn and so does he. I look at the gallery here on LPSG. I look at lots of hot photos. There's nothing wrong with that.

I think he's secure enough that it wouldn't bother him, but I'm still bothered if I do it when I'm with him because that makes me inconsiderate towards him. It seems impolite to the person you're dating if you don't try and hide it or avoid doing it when he/she is by your side.
 

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Maybe the women here are cruel but they won't tell you to act more confident, smile like you own it, etc. Even though it's what they want, they just kinda expect you to do it. If you don't act like they're nothing special I get the feeling they think you're a weiner. It seems they want a kind of strong,stoic,cocky men, then complain they aren't open and communicative. :p
In short it seems they want to have their cake and eat it too.

You lost me, too.
 

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I don't feel like there's absolutely anything wrong with looking in general. I look at porn and so does he. I look at the gallery here on LPSG. I look at lots of hot photos. There's nothing wrong with that.

I think he's secure enough that it wouldn't bother him, but I'm still bothered if I do it when I'm with him because that makes me inconsiderate towards him. It seems impolite to the person you're dating if you don't try and hide it or avoid doing it when he/she is by your side.

Exactly I don't mind the porn and maxium mags and heck i'd buy him playboy if he wanted it. It's when we go out together. I feel like he's not being considerate of me and how it makes me feel. I don't want to say hurt... I think embarassment is more what I feel. Like I've had some of my friends remark on it before, and that absolutely mortified me.
 

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Hmmmm, no that's not it in our case. I would welcome touchy feely at just about any moment.

I am a sucker for touchy feely.

Exactly I don't mind the porn and maxium mags and heck i'd buy him playboy if he wanted it. It's when we go out together. I feel like he's not being considerate of me and how it makes me feel. I don't want to say hurt... I think embarassment is more what I feel. Like I've had some of my friends remark on it before, and that absolutely mortified me.

Yeah, if someone sees one of you checking someone else out when you're together, that's really embarrassing to your partner. That's why I turn red. I feel like I've just treated him badly.
 

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I am a sucker for touchy feely.



Yeah, if someone sees one of you checking someone else out when you're together, that's really embarrassing to your partner. That's why I turn red. I feel like I've just treated him badly.

IDK, oh well the thread isn't all about ME! So I'll shut up now :) Thanks for sharing with me!
 

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You know damn well I mean isn't too bad in terms of making a helluva mess in the kitchen. And at least what you cook can be said to be more than worth the mess that does get made... and you tidy up after yourself if I don't get there first, which I often don't.

But here - have a :bj: anyway.

Better? :kiss:
Better than anything.
 

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Alright all the guys are about to hate me, but when a guy is too wrapped up in a video game to listen to anything I have to say it drives me nuts! :mad:
 

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Alright all the guys are about to hate me, but when a guy is too wrapped up in a video game to listen to anything I have to say it drives me nuts! :mad:

In that case you would really hate me then, but then again why do women insist on getting our attention when we are smack in the middle of something? I never interrupt my gf when she is watching her favourite shows or programs, I know it interests her and that she is paying attention to what she is watching so if I have something to say I just do it later when she is done.

Now her on the other hand will come up and try and start a conversation when I am in the middle of a game, what gives? Nothing she ever has to say is so important that it can`t wait an hour or so, yet often she gets miffed if I tell her to just tell me later as I am in the middle of an online game with some friends and we are playing as a team, so my undivided attention is focused on that in the moment.

So, why even interrupt your partner when they are smack dab in the middle of something they are enjoying? I would never do such a thing to my gf or anyone else, but why is it that women seem to do this constantly?
 

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When i worked on mens ward i can remember one guy who always sat in bed with his hands down his pyjamas and every so often he'd take his hand out and sniff it!:eek: Then,when HCA were dishing out the meals he didnt wash his hands before eating:eek::eek:

Now thats just gross and I would never do that and never have, I enjoy groping myself but I draw the line at touching my dick and then food, I`m kind of a neat freak so thats a big no-no for me.
 

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Ugh, my brother does this in front of the entire family. It was disgusting when he was 15 and its disgusting when he's 35. I dont want him touching me after he's been handing his balls for an hour watching Star Trek and eating cereal with a wooden spoon like a caveman. It's nasty.

That is indeed nasty, I would never think of doing that especially around family or friends.

I'll add to the list, pissing on the toilet and not cleaning it up is worthy of near death flogging if you ask me.

Agreed.
 

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when they think paternity leave is there to give them a bit of a holiday.

See, I agree that I hate this, I just don't think it's petty. It's a real problem.

All the things I could think of to write about in this thread were either not petty at all, or they only apply to some of the men I've dated, but definitely not all of them.

This thread would be easier for me to participate in if it was called "Petty shit you hate in your current man or your ex." Then I wouldn't have to try and avoid generalizations because I could just talk about stuff like how much it irritates me that TheBoyfriend uses my car all the time and leaves it with the gas tank not only empty, but the little indicator gauge as far below the red line as possible. It makes me late when I haven't scheduled a "fill up the tank" stop before I'm supposed to be somewhere. That's a petty complaint, but not every guy does it. I have 1,000 of those!
 
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