I have noticed that there is a bit of neurosis with guys who have big members. You grow up where girls reject you because your cock is too big for them, anal sex is OUT of the question, you end up hurting girls, then later you end up in a situation where you get used because of your magical orgasm stick. My last stunt cock broke it off because he felt used, even though he used me as a trophy for his friends and bragging rights as well as to feed his ego. Really in all reality I wouldnt have used him so much if he wouldnt have used me like that. I would have been girlfriend material if he would have let that happen instead of falling into the abyss of using each other. How do you feel about being used like this....it is stereotypical and cliche to think men want to be used as toys and it is more common that men will use women for sex then the other way around. I find this isn't true and men dont like being used for sex just as much as women, especially since their cock causes so many orgasms and the use and abuse happens more frequently to a bigboy. I am sure this is very applicable to gay men as well and my gay friends tell me about how often they get used. How do you feel about this? How does this effect your relationships?