PFM Personal Fuck Machine

[ShannonH]

Old thread, but it seems like when someone starts a new thread they get jumped on by people saying 'there's already a thread for this', and when they post to an old topic get jumped on for resurrecting an old one. I really don't have a problem with either.

I think the OP is right that most people, men and women, don't like feeling used just for sex. Personally I'm a little conflicted on this - I absolutely love it when an SO (of which I've had few) dirty-talks like she's just using me for sex. While sucking my dick, a now-ex grabbed my dick, looked at it, and said 'this is the only reason I'm with you.' It was very hot at the time.. still a bit of a turn on just to think about.
I've been with other women in purely sexual relationships, and in those cases it was fun for a bit, but eventually I felt 0 excitement at the prospect of seeing them.

Maybe it's not that I don't want to feel used for sex, but that I want to feel used for sex by someone who genuinely likes me otherwise and who I like being with.

 

[supersecretlemur]

It may be interesting and fun at first... "yeah, I'm THE guy because of my BIG MEAT" but at the end it is kind of like, "shit, am I just a dick?"

With my recent ex once thigns started going downhill I was thinking that I was being used for my dick. Then she came by a few more times just for sex (this is after she specifically looked at me and said "I will always hate you."). I felt pretty crummy about those few encounters, enough that the last time I wasn't even able to orgasm.

Maybe it is one of those things where the longer it goes on, the more everyone (men and women) generally dislike it.

 

[Exbiker]

My dick isn't really that great, so it's never really happened for me.

The people who have loved me appear to have done so because I'm kind, and clever, and quite funny.... :wink:

So I can't really offer insight, or support. Part of me thinks I would LOVE being used as a big dick sex machine, just once or twice... But I can see it might have its limitations ..,

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[ManofThunder]

I have noticed that there is a bit of neurosis with guys who have big members. You grow up where girls reject you because your cock is too big for them, anal sex is OUT of the question, you end up hurting girls, then later you end up in a situation where you get used because of your magical orgasm stick.

My last stunt cock broke it off because he felt used, even though he used me as a trophy for his friends and bragging rights as well as to feed his ego. Really in all reality I wouldnt have used him so much if he wouldnt have used me like that. I would have been girlfriend material if he would have let that happen instead of falling into the abyss of using each other.

How do you feel about being used like this....it is stereotypical and cliche to think men want to be used as toys and it is more common that men will use women for sex then the other way around. I find this isn't true and men dont like being used for sex just as much as women, especially since their cock causes so many orgasms and the use and abuse happens more frequently to a bigboy. I am sure this is very applicable to gay men as well and my gay friends tell me about how often they get used.

How do you feel about this? How does this effect your relationships?

That must have hurt. *crosses legs*

 

[halcyondays]

I don't see it as being "used" as long as both parties understand from the outset that it's just about sex. In my experience it's a bruised ego that feels used afterwards, which can happen for a variety of reasons, most commonly when one partner develops feelings for the other which are not reciprocated.

 

[lapdog2001]

I don't see it as being "used" as long as both parties understand from the outset that it's just about sex. In my experience it's a bruised ego that feels used afterwards, which can happen for a variety of reasons, most commonly when one partner develops feelings for the other which are not reciprocated.

As I have mentioned in other posts, in the past I had a female friend, turned lover, turned friend-with-benefits. During our years as FWB, we did 'use' each other for sex, but the 'friend' part of our relationship stayed in place.

There were some time periods where I really didn't want to hang out with her for various reasons, but she was addicted my my tongue on her clit, as I was to fucking her. I used that to my advantage to get laid in exchange for giving her the mind-blowing explosive oral orgasms she craved. It wasn't like we couldn't stand each other during these times, just that our mutual sexual lust for each other overrode whatever 'issue' was between us as friends. Sometimes I think we did use sex as a way to 'use' each other, releasing tension and reducing stress.

When there were no issues, having a good friend, who was a great fuck, and greatly enjoyed having sex with me a few times a week, was a good thing.
Very rarely did we get together just to have sex and then part ways. Most times it turned into a sleep-over and having sex again in the morning. :biggrin1:

Sometimes, her intention was just to crash at my place, but eve the smallest sexual comment or innuendo would lead to getting naked and having fun. :wink: