Philosophical query: if you can self-suck and do...

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No excuse, other than not presently pursuing those forms of sexual gratification. To some men it is great, to others it is not.

Kind of like asking a group of men, why do you not try topping or bottoming, some may say sure, some will say no way. Then you ask them why, what is your excuse ? They may answer , just my choice

Heck you could even go as far as to say, not every Straight man wants a BJ, from every woman he comes into contact with, even though they all have mouths, Hell, not every GAy - Bi man will accept or perform oral on every man they come in contact with, Ask any of them why; and they may answer I do not want to; or just not my type.

All men may be created equally; but what they do behind closed doors often greatly differs . Most often with out rhyme / reason ; or / nor Excuse.
 

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Interesting. I can't self suck. But it's not for a lack of trying as a younger man! In those days, I never thought it had anything to do with acting bi or gay. I mean - it's my dick. And this was long before any girl gave me head. Trust me, if I could I would. I've showed videos to my wife. And after she stopped laughing, she thought of course guys would do that.
 

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Interesting. I can't self suck. But it's not for a lack of trying as a younger man! In those days, I never thought it had anything to do with acting bi or gay. I mean - it's my dick. And this was long before any girl gave me head. Trust me, if I could I would. I've showed videos to my wife. And after she stopped laughing, she thought of course guys would do that.

I always wanted to make a t-shirt that read: "IF YOU COULD WOULD YOU?" LOL
 

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Why do you need an excuse for doing what you like, and not what someone else wants you to do?

My query was an excuse NOT to do something. If you're a guy and you suck your own dick then what's the difference in sucking another guy's cock or having another guy suck your cock?
 

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It is because it is something you are doing to yourself. Wanking your own dick is different from having another guy do it. Being one of the few who can suck themselves would still be different than having another guy do it. Playing with your own ass is still different than having another guy do it. Finding pleasure in your own body is not the same as letting another man do those acts to you.
 
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Are you questioning yourself because it is something you wish you could do to yourself?

No, it was just something that came to me as I was watching another member do it who identifies as straight.

But P.S. I do wish I could do it myself!
 

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I don’t get the correct, validation, dopamine hit when I pleasure myself

You mean when you self-suck? That's a good point too - the sensations are bound to be experienced differently.

Another point is I imagine self-suckers have a unique window into the action/sensation element, i.e. what actions produce what pleasures that those that suck lack aside from secondhand input by the person receiving the blowjob.
 

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So following this logic, someone who wipes their own ass after taking a dump has no excuse to not seek out wiping someone else's ass after they take a dump?

Yeah, no.

I masturbate from time to time, that doesn't mean I have any inclination to take another dude's junk in my hands.
 

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So following this logic, someone who wipes their own ass after taking a dump has no excuse to not seek out wiping someone else's ass after they take a dump?

Yeah, no.

I masturbate from time to time, that doesn't mean I have any inclination to take another dude's junk in my hands.

Not the topic but...uh...thanks for participating?