rainfletcher:
And life never gives you more than you can handle.
Sometimes I feel like this board's resident pessimist, but I have to agree with Nony on this one (with all due respect to those who disagree), with one caveat.
Some people literally die from what they've been doled out in life, and for them I would say life indeed gave them more than can they could handle...
Other times, you survive, but your not necessarily the same, or a better person afterwards, right? You may be more cynical or pessimistic. You may be less trusting, etc. etc. etc. Again, you may have survived it, but few would say you 'handled it'.
This is actually something that's fascinated me for decades --- 2 people with the exact same circumstances, one of them perseveres and the other crumples up. What is it about a persons personality that allows them to come through things alright and other not to? Hmmm.....
In any event, often times, life stretches us and we become a stronger, better person for having survived an ordeal...but the word 'never' doesn't apply, IMHO.
steps off soap box as vegetables bounce off his head