Phone sex when your partner is unavailable Is it ever right with anonymous persons?

Discussion in 'Relationships, Discrimination, and Jealousy' started by rrkrd, Mar 10, 2011.

  1. rrkrd

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    My partner travels overseas extensively on business and communication with him is often not possible for a week or more.
    I find having anonymous phone sex with others to me is more satisfying and hotter than solo masturbation and avoids the temptation to have anonymous real sexual encounters.

    What is your experience?
     
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    I'm not into phone sex; but I can understand why some people are. Have you talked to your partner about doing this? I wouldn't have a problem if my partner had phone sex. I wouldn't feel threatened or cheated on in any way.

    We have been together so many years that I don't worry about him running off with somebody else.
     
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    Sure it is. If your not secure enough in your relation to talk dirty to someone just give it up.
     
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    It's right if your partner has said you can do it.
     
  5. The Dragon

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    Why not skype with your partner and do the dirty phone sex with him that way? Skype or even yahoo voice is free between computers.
     
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    sent you an IM now
     
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    Is the underlying question here is...'is it cheating?'... I always go back to the same question. If you have to ask it probably is?!
     
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    I have phone sex usually a couple of times a week on chat lines - somegood horny role-play that's basically just a wank with another POV involved that can add suggestions to spice things up.

    I do this whether I'm with somebody or not and don't think it's cheating.
     
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