1. D_Kay_Sarah_Sarah

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    Friends i know (a couple) often travel with work and are regularly away for 4-6 weeks at a time. He was telling me the was they have gotten through this is they have become reliant on phone sex as their main form of 'self-pleasure' during each others absences.

    I tried it once and couldn't stop laughing. I couldn't concentrate on what i was doing with him talking, and when he wasn't talking i was to busy trying t get myself off to talk dirty to him. it felt ridiculous and i ended up faking just to finish it then went and finished masturbating myself in peace.

    Just wondering if you guys enjoy phone sex and use it as part of your relationship/s. Also do you still use it even if you see our partner regularly?

     
  2. AlteredEgo

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    I have a very hard time having phone sex for free. I also have a very hard time having phone sex with someone who is not a stranger. I prefer to get paid, and then forget the dude (or rarely, the lady). I do sometimes have phone sex with my boyfriend who is active duty, and also based 230 miles away. It takes me a while to get into it. Frankly, I think we both prefer to do our masturbating alone, or together in person. Still, sometimes we'll tell each other sexy stories, or direct each other to orgasm. When it does happen it's pretty hot.
     
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    I love phone sex. I have done it quite a few times, in LTR's, and once with a stranger.

    I have no problem talking dirty, and it can be very hot. Not as hot as the real thing, of course, but better than masturbating to porn.
     
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    I have tried it a few times and I'm with you Lee_M!

    Its odd at first, but then gets comfortable and almost exciting till you realize there's not much you can really...do :\ It's difficult to be creative when you're so limited.

    I end up getting off just the same, or having to fake it for the girl to get her to cum, I don't want to leave her hanging. I don't know if its any better than masturbating with porn...good porn. :)
     
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    I think it depends on your comfort level with talking dirty in general, like any type of sexual activity it can be fun if it's done well.
     
  6. D_Kay_Sarah_Sarah

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    I guess im a slave to the days of technology. i'd rather just masturbate alone and send him video, and vice versa. I like to have a visual
     
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    View my profile for a real picture of phonesex :biggrin1:














    PS it's NOT me :tongue:
     
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    As a former phone sex op, I love phone sex. Actually have started missing my job LOL.

    What do you think about that Altered Ego? LOL
     
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    i've always been a fan of phone sex. i love talking dirty. even when it's a little awkward or uncomfortable at first and you wind up laughing a bit, i think that's just part of the fun. you can't take it too seriously. you have to be playful about it. i've mostly done it with girlfriends in the past, most consistently when they'd have to go away and it was our only option but sometimes for its own sake as well. it would've been easy to hop in my truck and drive over there, but it's kind of hot in and of itself to just listen and imagine, touching yourself as you listen to your partner getting themselves off, turning them on with nothing more than your words.

    i could really only do it with a girlfriend or someone who i was involved with in some capacity. i've even done it with a couple of girls who were just friends and we happened to find the conversation leaning that way. i don't think i could do it with a stranger and i certainly couldn't pay for it. yeah, that's right, i'm such a wuss i still need an emotional connection even for phone sex. LOL!
     
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    thats better than phone sex....
     
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    When apart from your lover, phone sex is fantastic. You can say what you think, what you want, what you imagine will be done to you, what you will do to the other one. No holds barred. It is a good, good thing. I highly suggest it.
     
  12. Mr. Snakey

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    I never tried it. I know you have the voice for it:smile::wink:
     
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    While seeing partner regularly it is something to engage in during lunch or break to break up the monotony and make coming home or meeting up in the car somewhere something to look forward to. Preview with naughty e-mails and have mobile on vibrate, dialed excessively.
     
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    Same here. I've tried it and couldn't get off on it for the same reasons.
     
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    Years ago, I was on an extended business trip, and due back the next day... My wife and I were talking and realized she was breathing heavy... we had once kidded about the 'freakish' carrots at the local farmers market..

    She goes to tell me she bought some- thinking about, and missing, me...
    She proceded to get us BOTH off talking about it (and using the carrot)...

    I came home the next day....

    For dinner? pot roast with carrots...

    she never *would* tell 'which' carrots she used....
     
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    Catman -
    that must have been some delicious pot roast! lol.
     
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    I was never one to try the whole phone sex thing. I always thought it would sound silly. However, when you are in a relationship, and the person you care for/love is far away, you get these urges... pent up desires to explore that person's body, taste their flesh with your lips, caress their nipples with fingers and tongue, and savour the sweet taste of their tongue in your mouth. When such urges occur, you may find that you need to go beyond writing naughty emails to each other. As such was the case in my life.

    I found that I couldn't express myself as well as I could, orally (hush your mouth people, I meant verbally:smile:). Words can be very powerful but I realized that I needed to experience the response to my words. I wanted to hear the quickening of breath, the sighs, the responses, the moans that one tries to suppress but finds they are turned on far too much to do so.... I wanted to let the person respond, allow them to climb into my fantasy and explore my body and mind as much as I was exploring theirs.

    You will find that having a deep connection with the person you are on the phone with helps. AS I said before, I thought it was kinda awkward before I tried it, but actually laying there on the bed/sofa/whatever, speaking to someone while I tenderly 'caress' those places that make them inhale sharply and release a small moan, It really makes a difference.

    Perhaps it is because I am visual. Who knows?
     
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    Quoted, 'bolded' and enlarged for emphasis; I don't think I could've said it any better.
     
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