photographed, harassed at Black's Beach

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  1. wristthickxl

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    Hi, my boyfriend and I, visiting from Europe, went to Black's Beach near San Diego last Sunday. Some men freaked a bit when they saw my dick and at first, I thought the attention was nice..and funny. But as the day wore on, it became unrelenting.

    One guy pulled out his cellphone and, while I walked down the beach, made no effort to even disguise that he was taking pictures of me. Then, when I was sitting with my boyfriend, a guy walked by and, while staring at my cock, simulated oral sex, ie that he was sucking on it.

    Several men stopped near where we were sitting and just stared.

    And I wasn't erect or playing with myself or anything.

    I'll admit I liked the attention at first but it just became too much...I eventually put on my bathing suit but felt bad about this as we had wanted to sunbathe nude..

    This doesn't usually happen in Europe..is this normal if one is extremely well hung??
     
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    That must have been a real pain in the ass and sounds like it spoiled your day at the beach.

    As for people taking pics without permission, it's extremely impolite but is the end result so very different to having a load of your pics on a public site like this one? At least the ones taken on the cell phone will probably only end up doing the rounds of friends and family or on some obscure website, your pics here are seen (and much admired) by tens of thousands of people.

    LPSG has got to be the biggest nude beach on the planet!

    cheers

    Dillon
     
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    You probably experienced the phenomenom of seeing the populace of a sexually repressed country, i.e., the US. I'm sure where you are from, nakeditity is normal. Here, grown adults act like a 5 year old seeing a peepee for the first time...

    BTW, was the beach that you were at a nudist beach?
     
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    Next time go to Haulover nude beach in Miami. Everyone seems to be cool there.
    p.s. you should have taken his cell phone and smashed it. NO one has a right to photgraph you naked. At least you should have demanded that he delete the pic.
     
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    Black’s Beach is an unofficial nude beach, it’s illegal to be nude on any of San Diego beaches now. But the law turns a blind eye on Black’s Beach as it’s difficult to get to.

    It’s also a hot bed of pervs and voyeurs, if you’re good looking all kinds of jerks will come to stare and take pictures. In fact if you look up on the top of the cliffs you will catch all kinds with binoculars and cameras, doubtless jacking off.

    sorry this had to happen to you and spoil your day
     
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    Unfortunately this is a common occurence. In this day and age of ultracompact cameras, camera phones and cheap zoom lenses, anyone who steps foot on a nude beach could be subject to being photographed.

    If I see anyone take a photo of myself or my friends, I just walk up to them and ask them to delete it. I'll make a stink about it if I have to, but since I'm out in public with no reasonable expectation of privacy, they can pretty much get away with it.

    Mem0101 mentioned Haulover Beach. The trouble there is the same as any other nude beach. Especially those "tourists" who walk by with a video camera hanging from their shoulder, conveniently aimed directly at the people sunbathing.
     
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    Was it a nude beach or regular? If it was a nude beach, it's incredible because there are always plenty of big wangs on display. On a regular beach in the USA, keep it in your shorts or you will be taken to meet some really big boys.
     
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    On part of Black's Beach it is illegal to be nude but not inforced, but on the northern part it is legal (according to wikipedia, http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Black's_Beach).

    I haven't been to the nude part of black's beach, but I've heard stories of men jerking off there and naked guys running along side of women jogging past the area. So this story doesn't surprise me. I think while I still live nearby I need to check it out in person to see if the stories are true.


     
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    I go to Black's beach regularly and i too notice that there are lots of people who go just to see what they can. they really hover around females and are very annoyinng. a couple of guys got out of line and i had to remind them that it's a long way back to the top of the hill even more so with a foot up their ass. a bit of anger goes a long way. Also Blacks is a state beach and is not under the same rules as a city beach. nudity is illegal , but permitted and seeing there is no police presence to enforce it, you can do pretty much what you want to there. people have sex, smoke pot(guilty), camp out. but it's the cleanest,most beautiful beach in San Diego. lots of sea life also.
     
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    If you are laying naked on the beach, and if you go by the nickname of wristthickxl, why the hell would you be surprised at the attention?

    It would be real easy to resolve the problem by putting some trunks on if you were uncomfortable.
     
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    now i know why there is a large penis Support group..
     
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    I'm not an exhibitionist or a nudist but if I'm at a place like Black's Beach and someone wants to take a picture of my cock or body, I say GO AHEAD.
    I've put a lot of work into my body and have been blessed with a large cock.

    I'm not inhibited at all. But if I start to feel a bit inhibited, I'll slip my thong back on.
     
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    Wow...meatpackingbubba...I think you missed the point. Why should HE have to wear trunks, when HE is doing nothing wrong? The person taking the picture is way 'outta line' by snapping the pics in the first place. No-one has the right to take pictures of you clothed or naked without permission (at least that's the law in Canada) and I think it is presumtuous and downright ignorant on the part of the "photographer". Attention is one thing, invading people's comfort zone is quite another.
     
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    Thanks to the last poster...

    To meatpackingbubba, with all due respect, and you seem like a nice guy from previous postings, no one on that beach knows I am wristthickxl and I think I have as much right as an average hung guy to take off my swimming trunks and not be constantly photographed on a public, nude beach. Or to have men simulate oral sex while staring at my penis or stand blatantly in front me and get erections while staring at my penis while I am trying to read a book.

    The pics I have posted here and elsewhere are from the neck down so I can retain my privacy, something that was violated on that beach.

    Sorry but I take offense at this idea that if a guy with a really large penis drops his shorts at a nude beach then he is just asking to be photographed or harassed whereas the average or small hung man does the same and no one bothers him, implying that this is all somehow my fault.

    Because of my size, I find many bathing suits uncomfortable and simply enjoy sunning myself and swimming nude.
     
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    I am an exhibitionist, I do get lots of attention, and I don't mind. But one does not go to a nude beach expecting to find the paparazzi; he goes just to have a good time in the nude.

    It's no surprise that wristthick drew the attention he did, and yet it was rude of voyeurs snapping pictures (in particular, because wristthick probably didn’t want his image passed around by strangers). No different than posting pictures on LPSG, true, but there is a sense of permission, of having posted pictures here with the intent of them being seen.

    As for staring and childish gestures, it is a simple fact that some people just don't know how to act in the presence of a very attractive person. Women are troubled by this a lot more than men and in far more ordinary settings than nude beaches, so experiences like this should help us guys be more empathetic.

    I wouldn’t let the experience diminish your enjoyment of nude settings, try again, there are sure to be less idiots next time. Those places are hit and miss, and the crowd is different from day to day.
     
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    If you are in a public place, your expectation of (and right to) privacy is limited. Now that is not to say that someone staring or taking pictures is practicing the best manners, but it seems to me that one should expect it in such situations, particularly if one has something unusual to look at, such as a particularly large penis (or breasts, fantastic physique, famous face, or whatever).

    I have guys staring blatantly at me in steam rooms, showers, locker rooms, and at urinals with some regularity. It just goes with the territory. If I was shy about it, I would make sure I did not expose myself in such situations.

    If I wanted privacy at a nude beach, I would find a secluded part of the beach. If someone was bothering me, I would leave that area. If they persisted by following me, or failed to heed my warning to keep their distance, that is another thing altogether, and the same rules would apply whether I was nude or fully dressed: they would be risking a physical confrontation with me.
     
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    Oh, and one more thing for the record: you did not do anything wrong in my opinion, based upon your account of the day. But you were in public, not private, and as I posited in the previous posting, albeit in different words, you entered the public domain.
     
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    Every beach is a little bit different. I personally love going to Blacks. It is a lot quieter than most of the San Diego beaches, the surfing and snorkeling are excellent, and there are usually some gay guys on the north (Torrey Pines) end of the beach. Unfortunately all those nasty things you've heard about Blacks are accurate. I've heard plenty of "Dirty old man with a hard-on" stories from both men and women, as well as heard about the "Hot canyon/bush action". I don't ever take my swimsuit off there either, but certainly don't mind if others do. Yes I will look if you've brought your wrist-thick cock out for show-and-tell, but if you caught me looking I'd blush and stop staring. I've been to other nude beaches around, and they don't have as bad a creepy vibe. I know that San Onofre state beach is nude, but you get a larger naturalist population. My all time favorite nude beach has got to be "Little Beach" in Maui. (Best pickup spot for gay tourists in Hawaii, BTW)

    I think that it is unfortunate for the horny homo's to turn a beautiful, quiet, and secluded beach into an Outdoor bath-House.
     
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    Every beach is a little bit different. I personally love going to Blacks. It is a lot quieter than most of the San Diego beaches, the surfing and snorkeling are excellent, and there are usually some gay guys on the north (Torrey Pines) end of the beach. Unfortunately all those nasty things you've heard about Blacks are accurate. I've heard plenty of "Dirty old man with a hard-on" stories from both men and women, as well as heard about the "Hot canyon/bush action". I don't ever take my swimsuit off there either, but certainly don't mind if others do. Yes I will look if you've brought your wrist-thick cock out for show-and-tell, but if you caught me looking I'd blush and stop staring. I've been to other nude beaches around, and they don't have as bad a creepy vibe. I know that San Onofre state beach is nude, but you get a larger naturalist population. My all time favorite nude beach has got to be "Little Beach" in Maui. (Best pickup spot for gay tourists in Hawaii, BTW)

    I think that it is unfortunate for the horny homo's to turn a beautiful, quiet, and secluded beach into an Outdoor bath-House.
     
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    I’m a Florida resident and frequent Haulover Beach in Miami. This is a great beach and during peak season there are visitors from all over the world. I prefer going in the mornings to avoid crowds and have some privacy. Unfortunately most of the beach goers here tend to be very overweight so if you’re look to people watch it may not be your cup of tea. I bring a buddy, a good book and chill. The beach is also sponsored by a nudist group. I guess they are there to promote a nudist lifestyle. I really could care less. They also have volunteers, the Beach Ambassadors who patrol the beach and offer tourist information.

    One very busy afternoon a friend of mine and I were just finishing our lunch when one of the Beach Ambassadors walked up to me and started to yell at me. Keep in mind the beach is packed with people. He told me I’d have to leave because I had an erection. My buddy shouted back, I didn’t; I was just hung like a horse. I was embarrassed as hell. He then told me he was calling the police. I told him to call them and they could check out my cock too. He left us but every one on the beach was now looking at my cock.

    I filed a complaint but this type of harassment is BS.
     
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